Then why I still see him round lots of corners, in the street, in any corner ...... I have to get over this !!!! HOW !!!!
2006-10-26 14:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by landgirl60 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you were married, he became an integral part of your life. When life suddenly ends for them, yours doesn't. You may want to go to a psychic medium and ask them for help to get over him. You are not crazy at all.
2006-10-26 15:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone you love dearly to death is difficult. You can't actually get over it. The memories will always be there. Time will soften that void. Gradually, you'll think less of him in a day then weeks then months.... that is how time heals peoples broken hearts. It is a slow process and in the mean time you have to keep living and do what you need to do. I'm sure he would want you to carry on life happily. Find new goals, new friends, maybe even new relationships.
2006-10-26 15:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people might say he is there, in a spiritual sense.
Just take it as he's keeping an eye on you to make sure you're ok, slowly it should pass.
If you're really worried about it talk to your doctor about perhaps having counselling to help with the healing process.
2006-10-26 20:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't think you are hallucinating in the true sense of the word, but your mind is causing you to see what you most desperately want to see. Consult with therapist who specializes in grief and loss so you can come to full acceptance and recovery from this tragic loss.
2006-10-26 14:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 3 years. Don't worry about it. My mom's fiance died about 8 years ago, and she still says she wakes up and sees him next to her. It happens. You're just holding on to his memory. If you really think it's ruining your life, then you need to seek counseling. I think it's normal to "see" a loved one after their death.
PS Don't listen to these other RUDE people.
2006-10-26 14:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your seeing your husband out of the corner of your eye your not crazy dear one just a bit psychic and if he keeps reappearing to you its because you wont acknowledge him the poor thing is just trying to let you know he's ok if you acknowledge him he will move in and so will you
2006-10-27 11:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by lisac67mc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation only difference is i am aware of his presence i accept it he is watching out for me. i talk to him its very difficult i miss him very much i have to take time out and do something different to take my mind of it else i would cry and cry i think i am going of my head at times the comfort shopping does not help watching a film doing housework hobbies helps i also got a dog that helps a lot i feel needed go walks
2006-10-26 15:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no easy answer here so il be blunt....wot ppl say bout time heals all wounds is bull. but il tell you this much its through time that you get the courage to learn to deal with it and move on (hope that didnt sound evil? wasnt ment to be) anyway hope you find happiness in your life again as im sure you will
2006-10-26 15:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by maverick66555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same ghost as being in love with love.
It never goes away until you find another love.
2006-10-26 20:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, for some people it takes longer than others. If it helps you are not crazy.
2006-10-26 14:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋