I kinda like this friend of mine..but lately..whenever we talk..it goes no where..and that's my fault really..I have been obsessing about her off and on for the last 3 years and I made myself sick of her..so when we finally started to talk this past may, it didn't go anywhere and it ended really arkwardly. so I saw her again online(she lives in Japan as an exchange student and I live in the states) and sent her my myspace..but she never added me..and when I imed her again earlier this week, she didn't respond..and I left it online for a few hours....well a few days ago.. I found her myspace..now I don't want to send a friend request yet because I'm guessing she doesn't want to talk..but is it best to let her know how I feel so she knows why I have been acting this way?
She doesn't seem to care too much..so that's why I wondering if I should do anything at all..I am thinking of just waiting and see if she comes back into my life..the whole thing has slowly been detoriating for years..
2006-10-26 14:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by a_aramirez 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It kinda sounds that she doesnt care about the situation anymore. We as women, tend to close chapters when it comes to relationships. I should say that you let things be, maybe in time if you get to talk to her, try to bring up the subject. But, I dont think that you should keep wasting your time trying to talk to her cause she obviously seems that she doesnt want to talk to you.
2006-10-26 14:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should absolutely tell her how you feel. It's much easier online to express your feelings. If you really love this girl, tell her about it and communicate with her. If you don't tell her, she will never know how you felt. Write her a poem to express your feelings. Tell her all about what you've felt for her lately. If she says no, there will always be other girls out there for you. But give her a try, you can't lose anything by trying because you will always gain in life. You've got a great girl, take advantage of the chance.
2006-10-26 21:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wqould definalty get it out of the way, becuase it is just lingering in your head and heart....email her tell her everything, otherwise you will live with what if for the rest of your life, and maybe one day she will come back to you and say, you should of said something then,...you don't want to hea r that or no that you never took the chance or the risk...what have you got to lose, ....nothing, you already havne't had her around for a while...take the plunge if she doens't respond at least you know you can move on....
2006-10-26 21:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by chele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it Sweetie... So many people lose out on their real love because they are afraid to take that risk of rejection...
Why take the chance of getting to know her better out of pride?
Be your self and give it a try, if it doesn't work out you wont die... But you will have the satisfaction of knowing you tried... And you will also be able to put it behind you easier...
If not you will always be wondering "WHAT IF?"
Best wishes to the both of you.... :o)
2006-10-26 22:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you lose? It's best that she knows how you feel. Tell her. The way she accepts how you feel will resove issues you have on your mind which ever way it goes.
You'll feel better knowing than not knowing! Maybe you'll be able to sleep at night just a little better!
Tell her...trust me.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 21:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by BadBill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn 't do anything . It seems she has closed " the book " on your friendship .Sorry, but you will need to give her time . Don't push the issue with her , let her decide what she wants to do .
2006-10-26 21:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i would let her know how you feel, if you don't let her know, you might not ever be able to let go if you have too. ...then let her respond ...whether it be good or bad she will know how you feel... also you will really know how she feels about you.....It wont hurt to try......What have you got to lose?...........GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-10-26 21:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by amygotub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a last try...At least then if she is not interested, you can put your mind at rest.
GOOD Luck o.k......smiles
2006-10-26 21:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty.. man .. Honesty
2006-10-26 21:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋