these are my characteristics: 16 yrs old, 10th grade, 5'8 ft, 118lbs, blue eyes, dark brown hair, sorta pale skin, 6 pack abs, my muscles show) i wrestle and lift and i play guitar
PROBLEM: i just dont know how to act to a girl...im shy, sorta depressed, i am sensitive, my emotions are very strong (if im mad im extremly mad, if im sad i am very very sad,) i dont know how to impress a girl or act when a girl trys to impress me. i dont know what to do if i get a girl friend,
2006-10-26 14:31:41 · 6 answers · asked by SoAlone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you sound pretty gorgeous ... I dunno, when I was in high school, the whole sensitive, dark and moody thing would have worked on me. I'm sure someone will appreciate you.
2006-10-26 16:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself. Being shy around girls is perfectly natural, it will pass with experience.
Try the following to build your confidence:
1) Don't just talk to the girls that you fancy, this can be hard even for the most confident of people. Try talking to everyone, it is often easier to talk to girls that you don't fancy as there is no risk of rejection. Once your confidence is high, you will realize that there is nothing to fear, girls are just people like you and me.
2) Don't try and impress girls, just be yourself, talk about everyday things and about the things that interest you. Would you want a girlfriend that pretended to be something she wasn't just to impress you?
3) Don't worry too much. At the end of the day having a girlfriend at 16 is not life or death. Its very unlikely you will meet the girl of your dreams at 16. As you get older you tend to be attracted to people who have similar interests, attitudes and moral values, not just the ones you have a crush on.
Concentrate on doing well in school and having a good career, the confidence that this will give you will take care of everything else.
2006-10-29 05:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Looks are not important--it's what's inside that counts. Me, I go for honesty, trustworthiness, respect, and a caring heart. I get the sense that you're dealing with a lot of shyness and maybe even insecurity. Both of those will take time to work through. I could try to help, if you'd like.
2006-10-28 13:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too skinny. i weighed 120 pounds at your height for a while and attracted no girls. no matter what they say, the majority of girls do NOT like skinny guys - they like guys who are jacked and can lift them up and around and sh*t and f*ck their brains out. also, girls do NOT like guys with emotions, even though ALL of them say they do - i'm like that too, and i realized that the hardway. i'm starting to think that girls just want to be manipulated and dominated by some manly marlboro man who smokes 10 packs a day and beats up artists in his spare time.
anyway, stop whining, sack up, gain about 30 pounds of muscle, keep playing the guitar, and you will score tons of vagina.
2006-10-27 14:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by General P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, be your best self, and follow the Golden Rule. You will beat 90% of the other guys if you do that.
2006-10-26 14:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I should say, the hard-to-get tactic always intrigues me...
2006-10-26 14:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋