2006-10-26 14:23:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I did it and now I am stuck this way. I have a huge wall up. Been this way for about 5 years now. Trust me, you don't want to go there. Just avoid *******.
2006-10-26 14:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay busy. You pour your heart and your time into something worthwhile that you enjoy. Something that makes YOU happy. If you have to pretend for a while- well then so be it. No one can just close their heart. It's not easy to stop caring. If you are a sensitive person, then you are a sensitive person. There is nothing wrong with being who you are. If others can't handle it- then too bad. It is YOUR life. Eventually, you will start to feel less and less weighed down by it. If you work harder to make yourself happy, and are still able to care about others, then you will be a better person for it. What are your hobbies? What do you enjoy? Where are all the non toxic people that are good for you to hang out with? These are the things that will keep you sane. Do you like to laugh? What makes you laugh? Watch lots of comedy. Make a scrapbook of funny. Use only funny pictures, or jokes and cartoons, or whatever will make you smile if you look at it. When you're feeling like crap because you are trying too hard not to care, look at it and cheer yourself up. You are more important than whatever it is that brings you down. Otherwise it would not make you feel like you need to find a way to seperate yourself from it. You would not be telling yourself that you need to move on and forget. So the first step is already done. You have realized that you shouldn't have to put up with it. - so don't. If none of these things help, then break a few dishes and get a punching bag, and get a support group!!!! Good luck.
2006-10-26 21:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by giggitygiggitygiggitygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not closing my heart, I just let it rest for a while... I will not stop caring, they needed it. I'm less sensitive, I should be tough on what life will bring me. I have moved on, I learned to forgive but not forget... they are still a part of my life, and they helped me become who I am right now, I was able to measure my strength because of the pain they gave me.
2006-10-26 21:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably never forget and it may take a while to stop caring but, just getting involved with life and not dwelling on it is how you move on. Don't close your heart. The next person who wants in might be just what you need.
2006-10-26 21:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
As i am a very emotional and sensitive kind of man...
I never close my heart...
I cannot stop caring once i have given my heart...
Seneitivity does fade somewhat with time...
But one has no choice but to move on when the one they desire does not feel the same...
Thank You
2006-10-26 21:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Archangel 333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you close your heart by stop caring and becoming selfish which will also make you less sensitive and you move on and forget by finding someone to help you forget not neccessarily someone you want to be with but someone who can hold your attention for a while
2006-10-26 21:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can do it, it just happens. I was that way when i was depressed. Moving on just take time, but you will never ever forget. I wish i could forget alot of things, but i just cant. The way my father looked on the examining table the day after he died...I will NEVER forget. its been since July 28th, 2005 that he died and everything about that still is as clear as a bell and haunts me.
2006-10-26 21:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by bobbie21brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will always be with you BUT it will lessen and change form & the time between memories and thoughts will get bigger.
Dont close your heart because you sound such a kind & caring person.
Big hugs to you.
2006-10-26 21:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I build a wall so nothing can get it enough to hurt me. However, i violated my own wall and now i am in so deep that if something were to happen with my bf and i, i would go crazy. I guess.. just try not to think about it, talk yourself out of caring, talk yourself out of anything you are feeling.. any hurt you are feeling :(
2006-10-26 21:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by XxStepherzxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes naturally to me; If only I knew the opposite. I have a tendency to let no one in, or allow them to love me.
2006-10-26 21:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Diesel Weasel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋