Hi, I have been seeing my current bf for like six months (im 20). We have been fooling around but havent had sex yet. The thing is that he is much "smaller" than my ex was down there and I am worried that I wont find it to be as good. Not that my ex was that great, I mean it hurt a lot too, but its such a dramatic difference. Has neone ever had a problem here, or should I not worry about it...what should I do?
2006-10-26 14:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by Vannessa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Someone asked if I want my ex back...noway...but not because he was big...I liked it very much when he was gentle, just not rough...I am worried I am used to one thing and wont like it and I dont want to tell him after we do it that he is not good enough...that would suck
2006-10-26 14:25:52 · update #1
I am 44, I have to say I have never believed size to matter. What has always mattered to me was the size of their heart. That seems to help love grow much more deeper and seems to cultivate deeper emotions. After you find that his heart is in the right place and that he is someone who is worth keeping. With love in place it wont matter whats "down stairs" it only matters how he treats you thats what makes intmacy the grand final answer.
2006-10-26 14:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by dientzy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the size does matter. But a guy can do with what he has as much as we can do with what we have. We hide our physical flaws with a right make-up and a certain way we twist our bodies or position our legs... the same thing with sex. Even a smaller guy can give you a great pleasure.
My husband isn't the biggest I had, but he's a great f...k. It's about how he makes you feel, how he moves inside you, the right amount of pressure at a right time... You get the idea... Go ahead, do it.
2006-10-26 21:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by Len74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a little piece of advice...It is not the size of the magicians wand it how he does the tricks. So don't judge it by the size because dynamite can SOMETIMES come is small packages
2006-10-26 21:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Melisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot more to this than size. I been with both and I have found that it's not the size, but how he moves.
2006-10-26 21:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the last person hurt, then going smaller will be better for you. Really, so long as he knows how to use his tongue, then everything else will be butter.
2006-10-26 21:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by abulafia24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's something you think is important, and it very well could be, perhaps you should break up now before someone gets hurt.
2006-10-26 21:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it a problem if he's smaller? or do you want ur ex, back?it shouldn't be a problem but it depends on wat ya like. everybody has a preference, unfortunately. give the guy a chance if you really like him who knows he might surprise ya! ever heard that sayin..... stand back i dont know how big this thing gets!
2006-10-26 21:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by jasonjuicy1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about your boyfriend's size...What counts is whether he knows what to do with it to give you pleasure...Technique is extremely important.
2006-10-26 21:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a doomed relationship based on penis size.
2006-10-26 21:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think size matters. It's all in how he uses it.
2006-10-26 21:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋