im a total tom-boy and i seriously only hang out with boys, i play paintball and video games and have never worn make-up or a ladies shirt in my LIFE. I love being friends w/ guys cuz thyre not catty and they'll tell u what they have to say to your face but i hate it when they stare at my chest, ive even started only wearing really tight sports bras to strap them down (im a DD) and really baggy shirts and hoodies, but that doesnt keep their eyes from wandering off my eyes, so if you have the same problem or any advice . PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!! i dont want to give up my awesome friends!!!!1
2006-10-26 14:06:21 · 19 answers · asked by myself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
(im sorry can u repeat the question my eyes were wondering)
the honest answer is u cant but wear shirts that say im up here ^ and maybe they'll get the message.
2006-10-26 14:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Evil Drummer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like how old are you? Why do you want them to stop. Most likely they think you are cute. this is a compliment! You are a guys dream come true. You like their kind of stuff and not real prissy.You probably are pretty and they can't help there self. whats the harm with them catching a peek? Why would you have to give them up/ does it really offend you that much you would stop being their friend. I don't understand ?
2006-10-26 14:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to change guys. In fact, guys are attracted to girls who like the same things they do. Eventually they start noticing other features about you that they find attractive,as in your case, your breast! You will never be one of the guys to them, just a girl who is denying emotionally and physically her true self. Guys can be cruel also, and may start suggesting that maybe you are a "dike", or "bull-dagger"(rough gay chick), so don't try to act like them. It would seem to some that you may have an identity crisis! Just because you don't want to act like a girl, will not stop them from being guys! When you decide to accept that you are a female and act like it, then you will better understand why guys like to look at you. Why don't you act like the gender you were born, without being "catty"? Try being friends with guys, without trying to be one, because they will always know the difference. That's nature! Challenging the natural flow is like swimming against the current of a river!
2006-10-26 14:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya i know how you feel im the same way total tom boy and it great to hang out with boys cuz there not all girly girly
try wearin baggyr clothes and a tighter bra should probly make them a little less big.....
im not sure if im helping at all
i hope i am
if im not o well
it was atleast wrth the effort to help
2006-10-26 14:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by wheneva_u_need_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun u cant help guys being attracted to u!!
Id say lap it up!!! or just tell them straight
"Oi, these are my boobs boys.... So eyes off"
jokingly of course!!!! with a lil bit of sterness in ur voice!!!
If that doesnt work then tell em without joking to quit looking at u!!!!
P.s or u could buy that shirt that has
^^ "My Eyes are up Here" ^^
2006-10-26 14:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you don't have to give up your guy friends just let it be known that you don't appeciate them staring at your boobs. Or when you catch them say Hey I am up here. But if they are you friends you should be able to talk to them and they will be ok with it
2006-10-26 14:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Melisa H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No insult intended. But if the boys are starin you must be a babe!
It is just the way things are.
I know this does not help you. But girls are girls and boys are boys!
2006-10-26 14:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to live with it.
When you catch them staring at your chest, tell him if you catch them doing it again you will tear off their _______ fill in space.
Have your boobs surgically reduced.
Believe me....someday you just might be very proud of those boobs!!!
2006-10-26 14:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is try and find this shirt at your local mall--I saw it at Spencer's Gifts at our local mall. I wish I would have bought it myself--due to my large rack--it says something like "Yes these are real!"! It was so funny--I bet that would get them thinking!!!
2006-10-26 14:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by browneyedgirl77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are already doing a good job of hiding your boobs but your friends are not gay and they are just doing what guys do. I check out all girls.
2006-10-26 14:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋