I'm 18 Whats some advice you would give me on life?

Question

I'm 18,Im a virgin,I want to save myself untill marriage.Im kind and responsible in my opinion..But I know how they say you live and you learn..So whats some advice you would give me on life?Please tell me your age too,Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

I'm 38, and I think the best advice I can give you is NEVER hit on 12 when the dealer has anything less than a 7 showing.

That advice is free.

Answer 2

I'm 41. And when I was your age, I was sure I knew everything. I was mature for my age, as were my friends. As I look back, I realize that most of what I know was learned between the ages of 18 and 30. You're a kid. You will be until about the age of 30. But you're obviously smart. Don't let that get in your way. I drove by my highschool the other day. TWENTY years ago I graduated. Seems like yesterday. God bless your chastity, but if I could do it again, I'd have done a lot more ****_n. And I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. And remember this and use it to your advantage: Youth is wasted on the young.

Answer 3

It is good to hear this.

If you were in India, you could
remain a virgin, till you wanted.

There are many reasons:
In India sex is not taught in schools
or colleges. There are no Pornography
or adult TV channel.

People show respect to elders at home
and on the streets(even unknown).

A young boy is given maximum time
by his parents, and other elders at
home, as most of India's families
believe in Joint Family system, unlike
in the west or Europe.

Family bondages are the first thing
that is taught at Indian homes. Even
after attaining adulthood, the child is
never asked to check out of the house.

The mental and moral support given to
such young boys and girls help them
to be nice persons.

I do not know where you are located, but
if you find any Indian family, you will find the
same culture existant and one may feel
jealous about it.

I am 54, and stay in a different part and
away from my parental home. I visit them
regularly and stay there. I do not have to pay
them to stay and have food there. They
give us gifts, regularly- so do we. Very often
we meet (6 brothers and sisters and their
children) and spend time together.

Traci gir, please have friends, who are
very much older than you, so that you
can learn from their experience.

Friends of your age category, will not be
able to tell you which is right or which is
wrong. To be a virgin in your country may be
a surprise, but to me/us you are just like another
girl from India. Also please try to make
an Indian family, your friend and learn many
good things from them.
If you visit them regularly, you will learn
many of the good things, which are missing
from your society.

The true success for life would depend,
upon where you learn and from whom.
You will feel safe in Indian company and
surely be safe.

Also please try to read English interpretation
of Bhagwat Gita, an Indian epic.

You can be very successful, if there is
a guide, a senior person, and an Indian
friend around you, from whom, you can
get several tips for your future.

Answer 4

Never trust anyone who tells you to.

Love hurts everytime.

If you're bored, you can do a little dance to amuse yourself.

Never be afraid of pain.

Survival is not enough.

Sing, whether you can or not. You'll feel better.

Friends come and go. If you let them, you'll still be friends when you see them again.

Most people make their own drama out of boredom.

You can skip class, or you can skip the homework, but you can't do both and still pass.

Study just a little more than you party, but be sure you make time for both.

A plan is just a list of things that aren't going to happen. Stay flexible.

Travel as often as you can while you're young. It really doesn't get easier to do when you get older.

Live alone for a while- you'll get a better sense of yourself and your capabilities.

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Answer 5

I am 34 years old and I would just like to first commend you on wanting to save your virginity until marriage. You will go through life feeling out of place. But remember, you are only seeking the approval of God who loves you very much not people. No, we are not perfect & will make bad choices in our life, but don't beat yourself up. Always pray to God for guidance so that you can continue to walk that straight & narrow path. Every problem you face in your life is a blessing in disguise. So don't give up. Love yourself for who you are first before you take that big step in marriage and ALWAYS put God first.

Answer 6

I think it's great that you got to 18 without having sex. I didn't. I was like 14.... and I'm 36 now... I would wait if you can, but I do not think a person should wait until they get married to have sex. There's just to much riding on it.. no pun intended...The sexual relationship you have with your spouse is very very important, and if they don't "do it for ya" then a huge part of your married life is dead..... But definately wait until you know ther person. Don't just sleep with the first guy who wants you. I'm glad I had a few partners before I met my husband. I got to know myself, to get comfortable with my own sexuality, and I know what I like.

Answer 7

Be honest with you and with others. Be natural, joyfull and loving. You will meet all kind of people , but I am sure you'll recognize that
man which will truly love and deserve you.
I am 43 years old ,but I feel much more younger .And I have two daughters ,too,one is your age...

Answer 8

it will be impossible but you have to know how to protect yourself because anything can pop up. so keep comdums and talk to your close best friend(male ). just have fun . you won't know the right one unless you have been with her sexualay because it tells alot. know thw age frist 18 or higher

Answer 9

let me say WAIT !
once gone you can not get it back
your husband will love you for it..
and age
older than dirt....

smile
good luck

Answer 10

ALWAYS EXPECT THE BEST, BUT BE READY FOR THE WORST!!!