Me and my female friend Jen are both 17 years old. Me and her have been best friends for our whloe lives. She was at my house last night. We were in my room watching tv and then I kissed her and then she started kissing me back. The next thing I know we end up on my bed and we are still kissing and then she said make love to me. To make a story short we ended up having sex. I talked to her today and she said it did not mean anything to her. I do you not believe her when she says it ment nothing. I think it did mean something to her but she was afraid to admite it to me. What do you think. Do you think it means anything
2006-10-26 13:09:50 · 12 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Times like this have the ability to ruin friendships, which is probably the reason she doesn't want to think or talk about it. Admitting it meant something means that she may want more then just sex from you, and the scariest thing about it is that if she develops a sexual and romantic relationship with you she may have to someday face the possibilty that you could not work out and break up, which is scary when there is a friendship involved because it sounds like you two have an excellent friendship.
There's really no easy way to do this, but give her some space and don't pressure her into talking about it, just let her know that you would really like to talk about it, but there will be no pressure, you can both just discuss what happened, go over it, see what each of you think and be honest with each other and then go from there.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 13:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My female friend, Jen, and I are both 17 years old. We have been best friends for our whole lives. She was at my house last night. We were in my room watching TV and then I kissed her and then she started kissing me back. The next thing I know we ended up on my bed and we were still kissing and then she said, "Make love to me." To make a story short we ended up having sex. I talked to her today and she said it did not mean anything to her. I do not believe her when she says it meant nothing. I think it did mean something to her but she was afraid to admit it to me. What do you think? Do you think it means anything?
Edited for mature content - you write like a 12 year old.
2006-10-26 13:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by eeaglenest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It meant a ton to both of you! You did something you quite frankly, shouldn't have done til you were older and more financially responsible to have a child.. Maybe she's pregnant, and won't admit it. If so, you've got a new responsibility on your way. If anything, she should give the baby up for adoption. Sorry I'm rude, but did you even think before you acted? No one knows what that one night might do to your future. What about STD's? Think next time, okay?
2006-10-26 13:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please trust me on this: it meant a LOT to her. She's just saying that because she thinks, probably incorrectly, that you may not care that much for her, so she does not want to do anything to make you feel obligated.
Treat her with the utmost kindness and respect. It could lead to more sex, and, if you're lucky, marriage, and maybe even a very happy life!
And by the way, don't start your sentences with 'me' as the subject. You want to say "Jen and I" or "she and I."
2006-10-26 13:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Carlos R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, is there feelings for one another? Or is it just some one time thing to have fun? Because if you do this, a friendship could change.
2016-05-21 23:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was she with sum1 when u asked her, because if 1 of her friends rejected u (doesn't like u) than she'll say it meant nothing to plz her friend. i don't think it's bad to hav sex. ask her out for a date and see if she'll confess that i did mean sumthing to her. try telling her it meant sumthing to u.
2006-10-26 13:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did a huge mistake!!! Now your best friend is totally confused and doesn't know what to do! You put your friendship in danger dude!
2006-10-26 13:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by premedsophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends
does she relate sex to love
or for her is sex just the physical act of pure f ucking
tell how how you feel
2006-10-26 13:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It meant alot to her she just doesn't want it to affect the friendship
2006-10-26 13:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or it did mean sometihng but didnt say anytrhing cause hse might think it didnt mean anything to you, or it realy didnt mean anything to u
2006-10-26 13:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋