oh my gosh!
So, There is this girl named Katie who my BFF & I became friends with last year. Katie didnt have any friends at school and we wanted to be nice to her since she started following us around EVERYWHERE. over the summer my BFF & I hung out alot with her. Katie kind of bonded more with my BFF- and not me. That didnt bother me though because I didnt even like her that much, and I thought she'd jsut go away after a while.
Anyways to make a REALLY long story short...Katie still hangs out with us, and she and my BFF work together. Now, I hang out more with my other friends and not my BFF.
My BFF always complains to me about how much she HATES Katie. I tell her "Shes not that bad actually" but my BFF acts like she cant stand the girl.
Then I go into Katies classroom to give something to her teacher & when I'm walking out my BFF is outside the door WAITING FOR KATIE so they can walk together.
umm wtf? I thought my BFF didnt even like Katie!?!?
2006-10-26 12:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My BFF also always texts Katie, and at lunch she sits next to her. But when Katie texts her- or sits by her my BFF gets all mad. Its annoying because I'm confused wheter or not she likes her. I have ask my BFF what the deal is and she still says she hates Katie.
I'm thinking it might have to do with that Katie does everything that my BFF tells her to do & I am starting to be a little more confident with myself. I'm worried that me being confident in myself is making my BFF not like me anymore!!!!
PLEASE HELP!?!?
2006-10-26 13:02:13 · update #1
PS. all Katie does is talk sh*t about people. She isnt nice & she makes of crap about things all the time. She lies to both of us and causes so much drama. I dont get it!!!
I have always been a great friend to by BFF & now just because I'm confident about myself shes pushing me away.
2006-10-26 13:03:39 · update #2
I WOULDNT CARE IF SHE LIKED KATIE. I LIKE KATIE!! I JUST DONT WANT HER THERE 24/7
2006-10-26 13:04:24 · update #3
Maybe she's telling you that so that you don't feel left out since you say they bonded alot more then the two of you have. Perhaps she picked up some resentment on your part, or she just guessed that it might come up so she's trying to prove to you that you're still her number one friend, but she can't help but liking the other girl as well.
Why don't you tell her that it's okay for her to talk to her and you don't resent it. If you do resent it, then believe me you don't need to, because she's obviously trying to make you feel better by telling you she doesn't like her, and trying not to run her friendship in your face.
2006-10-26 13:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that but u no katie must have no one else so give her a break in the shes there 24/7 sum gurls cant get themselves out there! as for the fact she talks sh!t dont let it get to ya just find more friends and leave ur old life behind
2006-10-26 13:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but friends change and she probably is finding a new best friend or she's turning into a lesbo LOL but It sounds like or best friend cares a lot about you and doesn't want to just go out and say I have a new best friend she's trying to drift away slowly so that you don't get mad and you don't get your feelings hurt, hope It' helps
2006-10-26 15:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by dustinr91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore ur bff. then shes gonna ask whats wrong. tell her your story. refuse to hang with her till she spills her guts.
p.s.
i feel sorry for u.
2006-10-26 15:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by WHO ARE You? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bff is geting something out of being k8s frined thats making it worth it.
2006-10-26 13:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she actually does like katie..she just don't want you to be mad at her.
2006-10-26 13:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please spell out all your words. A lot of people don't know what BFF means. I assume it's something used in chat rooms and I don't do chat rooms. Thanks.
2006-10-26 13:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there are more serious problems in the world. lol... communication is a great tool. talk to her
2006-10-26 13:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by stupid cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf and katie are screwing
2006-10-26 13:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋