This girl wants my man, not to BE with him like relationship wise...but wants to sleep with him. She sleeps with everyone, and her husband lets her. She calls my husband, shows up at his work, and im's him on messenger when she sees him online. My husband cannot stand her but is not being rude (or at least not as rude as I would be) to her because that is just not his nature (plus her husband is a cop and I think that intimidates my husband...lol) I want to tell this girl to leave him alone, he is perfectly happy married to me and he is repulsed by her....what should I say? No holds barred, give me your worst!! Thanks!
2006-10-26 12:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by sunflower_dancer80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her what you just told us...
I want to tell this girl to leave him alone, he is perfectly happy married to me and he is repulsed by her...
2006-10-26 12:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would very sweetly tell her if she calls or contacts your husband again, you will show up at the police station when you know her husband is working there and discuss it very loudly with him and what a pest she is being. If that doesn't work, your husband should get a restraining order against her. Seriously, I think she's a stalker and trying to see how many guys she can get.
2006-10-26 20:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband should be the one to tell her to lay off, and if he can't handle it then, then you should step in. As far as showing up on his job and im's him is crazy, he could put a stop to this immediately.........he should tell her husband, I can't believe that her husband would allow her to carry on with other men like she says he does. Tell your husband that if he says that he is happily married then he needs to show it to you by getting this woman off his back, unless he is not telling you every thing. I would keep my eyes and ears open real wide on this one.
2006-10-26 20:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a skank!i can't stand girls that think they can have whoever they want.
Any hoo,people always want what they can't have so your hubby must ba a massive challange for her.If only your hubby could tell her to get lost!
I would just give it to her.think of how angry she is making you feel and just go for it.tell her how pathetic she looks and to find someone else to chase who isn't married,or,maybe she could just go for her husband haha.
Goodluck!Hope you manage to get rid off the skank lol
2006-10-26 20:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and also your husband.who gives a crap if her husband is a cop he can be the president of the united states but no women is going to ruin my marriage especially a scank.do what you got to do girl.
2006-10-26 20:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants what she can't have- maybe he can tell her he has aids- that should scare her off- how about a restraining order for stalking- sounds like her and her husband are flakes- maybe your husband's boss can tell her she is not allowed on the premises and your hubby can change his messenger name and id= no telling what diseases she has - incl. herpes- and even hepatitis- D
2006-10-26 20:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason you have a home wrecker in your life If your husband doesnt like her then ignore her. by answering her he is incouraging her. she most likely is enjoying the challenge
2006-10-26 20:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by LISA A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TOLD HER THAT YOU 2 ARE VERY HAPPY IN UR MARRIAGE AND THAT IF SHE CAN LET UR HUSBAND ALONE WITH. IF NOT I THINK YOU WILL HAVE TO LEAVE OR CHANGE. (if its possible from citie).
2006-10-26 20:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either call the police and sue the hell out of her. Or call some friends up or anyone who will go with you and find her and beat the hell out of her.
I mean who the hell does she think she is?
I'd beat her up.
2006-10-26 19:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing what is called harrassment and sexual harrasment. Don't take the law into your own hands, Take em' to court.
2006-10-26 20:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋