My b/f plays guitar and wants to "jam" with a drummer....yet he thinks I should not go with him to the chicks house...(she is 23, my b/f is 36) Am I just feeling jealous...or would you feel this way too? We have a friend who is a drummer (male), but he is too busy to jam with my b/f....but this girl said she wants someone to jam with. My b/f thinks I am being ridiculous...it's only platonic...I havent seen her...so I dont know what she looks like...
2006-10-26 12:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
there is no band...it's just the 2 of them
2006-10-26 13:01:43 · update #1
It's ridiculous not to allow you to go also-what will it break their concentration? Tell him I am a budding and well-paid artist, and offered you $4,000 dollars to paint you in the nude.
2006-10-26 12:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can see both sides to the story...On his side, all he wants to do play his music w/somebody and he thinks you're being a silly jealous girl. On your side, your boyfriend is hanging out with some girl you don't know at her house. I think that you should let it go-as long as he's never cheated on you before and you trust him. I mean you've been with him for so long, you've gotta have trust. Maybe to make yourself more reasured, you could ask your boyfriend if you could meet her first, see what kind of a person she is, if she has a b/f, etc. It's probably nothing if he's not doing this all the time, like no more than once/twice a week. Maybe one time you could go with him too. I know my b/f is learning to play the guitar and he goes to his friend's house a lot to play late too, only there are guys and girls sometimes. The real thing on his mind is him getting to practice his music, guys get pretty serious and into it ya know...Just try not to make it a big deal, b/c I'm sure it's not. much love....
2006-10-26 13:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by cjb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin said if he's 36 and she's 23....she only wants to "jam" and nothing else....let him go, if he was wanting something more he wouldn't tell you where he was going...so don't be jealous....I think I would feel jealous and I wonder how he would feel if the table were turned....then I would turn them...but that's just me.
2006-10-26 13:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be jeleous at first, but then i would prolly get over it. If you guys have been together for 7 years, i dont think hes going anywhere. He prolly just wants to hang out with someone who has the same interests as him (music).. I wouldnt worry about it. My bf brings this girl to and from work like all the time. I was mad at first but then I got over it when I saw her.. she was BUSTED..
Now he doesnt do it anymore though :) YAY
2006-10-26 12:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stepherz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey what he is jamming , with her is not music , get a clun , and a new boyfriend , there is no room in anyones life for the green eyed monster ,
2006-10-26 13:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable taking you the first time. Tell him to ask his friend if you can come with him next time to hang out.
2006-10-26 13:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what bands do, they jam with other people who play its like talking with your friends. You know plus he's in a band he's going to cheat on you eventally, even Hale Berry and Jessica Simpson got cheated on, your no prize.
2006-10-26 12:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If it is a band they need to be alone to concentrate.
2006-10-26 12:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your b/f will be jamming allright
2006-10-26 12:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by SmoothCharacter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋