i had a realy lovely solvack girl friend but felt for the last two weeks
she had been telilng lies big ones found out to day she had so i kicked her out did i do the right thing loved her to death but can trust her
2006-10-26 12:39:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its hard to trust a person who lies. you did what you had to do to keep yourself sane. i dont blame you. perhaps in the future you two can become friends
2006-10-26 12:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1if your partner has been with someone else you still can forgive but lay down rules and principles of value,
2 Trust ( belive and forget what is going to happen next. curiosity kill the cat . Do not antecipate any conclusions
3 live and let live one thing at the time By drawing a line and rules then you can not go wrong?
2006-10-26 12:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tony V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you can't trust someone you will constantly be trying to catch that person in whatever it is they are doing behind your back and you will be miserable. Go on with your life. Find someone who loves and appreciates you enough to be honest with you. I hope this helps. Good luck to you in the future.
2006-10-26 12:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Libragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can trust someone after they lie, but they have to regain that trust. Obviously your trust in this girl has been broken down, and its going to take some time to rebuild. Don't worry about it, it will all work out.
2006-10-26 12:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes course you did the right thing .... you could never trust her again .. I'm sure there are more women out there that deserve somebody kind and loving like you .. she certainly didnt by the sounds of it
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2006-10-26 12:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by kirsty d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, most people will forgive a friend who lies. it mostly depends on the lies she said. since they were big lies, and if i were in your place, i think i might have not forgiven her. if she is your true friend, she wouldn't have lied to you. I would consider about giving her another chance though. if you find out she lies again, thats when you know to break the friendship.
2006-10-26 12:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by OrangeBlitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't trust someone that's lied, but if it's little lies (which in this case they're not) than I could forgive and forget.
2006-10-26 12:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody lies to some extent. Take her back start again and talk about what you both expect from each other.
2006-10-26 12:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what anyone Say's, after you catch them in a lie, you never fully trust them again.
2006-10-26 12:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone tells lies only it depends on what it is I was always told you can watch yourself on a thief but not on a liar
2006-10-26 13:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋