2006-10-26 12:06:00 · 5 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Well I really hated what I was doing because it did not match my values and the wat I wanted to be seen as a woman I felt degraded,objectified and was constantly compared to other women. At the same time I learned about the dark side yea the money is good but it comes at a price not only are the patrons creepy but many of the women have a lot of self esteem and past trauma issues. I can no longer look at strip clubs and sleazy videos the same way.
While I was dancing I traveled all over Michigan and into Canada and I had a lot of experiences the whole time sinking deepere into self loathing,addictive behaviors and losing sight of my dreams. I justified it to myself with the money but afetr a while that was no consolation for my self-worth. I stopped sometimes I miss the money but I would rather work hard two weeks for a paycheck and be respected than have tips every night but feel empty.
2006-10-26 17:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by NuMi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...dancer?, yes,...exotic?, that would depend on the patrons you asked...(but i think i was, *smiles*)
...i did enjoy it alot,...the $$ was very nice,...most of the patrons were respectful, of course there are idiots everywhere in the world, so that's why there were bouncers very close by...
...what i found interesting were the number of grrrls that would frequent club,...they were there for a good time, and a fun group to be around...
...i learned alot from dancing, self respect, self confidence, and to be comfortable with my sexuality,...and i think the patrons really respected me for my attitude,...well, at least i think the did?...*giggles*
2006-10-27 05:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i loved it cos the money is good
2006-10-26 23:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya
2006-10-26 22:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not me.
2006-10-26 19:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by mister 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋