but now that he is back in New York he thinks that I should bring him to his house or pick him up sometimes. I think that if he really wants to spend time with him he should make all the effort to do it on his own am I wrong?
2006-10-26 11:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by L@M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart you are 1000000% correct. The hell with those half as*** wanna be fathers. They think that they can come in and out whenever its convient for them, do you feed your child when its convient for your or when he/she is hungry? I am glad that he now wants to participate but make him rip and run, do you it enough.
2006-10-26 12:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the father of your son really wanted to see him, then he would definatly make some kind of effort to come and see him. I have a 3 year old baby boy and his dad started doing the same thing. "Can you bring him by so I can spend some time with him?" I used to do it and finally when he called and asked me to bring him by....I got fed up, I told him, "Look hes your son, if you want to spend time with him bad enough you'll come get him." And you know what, 20 mintues later he was at the front door to pick up my son. Don't start taking your son over there. Also you may want to find out why he wants back into your son's life all of a sudden. Is there something fishy that doesnt seem right. Sometimes fathers do realize they need to be a part of their childs life, but most of the time, once they are free and clear of fatherhood they don't come trailing back unless there is a reason, so before you let your son go alone find out what his altmatives are, make sure he's not planning something. Scary I know but it has happened. Children get kidnapped everyday by their own parents, yet they feel no fear because it is their mom or dad,just make sure that when your son is with him, he will be returned safe and sound.
2006-10-26 12:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Your ex should make the honest effort to see his son and stop being the dog that he is. If he does not make the effort. Don't allow your son to see him. His presence will hurt your son in the long run.
2006-10-26 12:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No...I'm in the same situation except my kids father is in another state. he hasn't called them in over a year. I have his number but I refuse to make the effort that he should be making. Your doing the right thing he needs to step up and take responsibility for his child.
2006-10-26 12:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does need to do this on his own. Its not your job to bring him to your son. Now if its court ordered that's different. But he was the one that walked out its his job to walk back in.
2006-10-26 12:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree 100% with you if he really wants to see his son then he should get his butt over there and go see him
2006-10-26 11:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by livinglifeforluv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE SHOULD - WHAT ARE YOU? A TAXI SERVICE.YOU PICKED THE WRONG GUY TO MAKE A BABY WITH.
2006-10-26 11:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right.
2006-10-26 14:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋