I have raised my son from birth on my own. He is now 14. We are comfortable being naked around each other. For example my son often forgets his towel during a shower so after he walks freely across the landing to his room and I never bat an eye lid. Is this wrong? He has been in my room when I change my underwear. Is this wrong? He once masturbated with his room door open and clearly saw me see him but didn't feel embarrased nor did i! is this weird/wrong? What should I do...I think we have gotten to a point that can't be turned around....Help
2006-10-26 11:55:18 · 22 answers · asked by Melanie K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the masturbation part is unacceptable, but as a nudist I see no issue in family members being nude in front of each other as part of their daily life.
2006-10-30 02:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the nakedness is a problem, I mean he's your son and we were all born that way. There are plenty of families who are comfortable being naked infront of each other. The masturbation I think is too much though, that's just my opinion but I'd have a word with him about that. Or just close his door if it happens again, so it sends a clear message that it's a private thing to do.
2006-10-26 11:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Alana B 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I take it that you and her have always been casual about her seeing you that way. I don't see a problem. Even so, it's not appropriate for her to be around you often when you're aroused, even though the arousal at the time is involuntarily. You should require, and she should respect, some privacy when you're aroused any more than briefly and unintentionally. Otherwise, you don't need to compulsively hide yourself from her. And BTW... God does not make junk. You owe your very life to someone else's equipment and you should respect yours more than to speak of it in that way.
2016-05-21 23:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U saying being naked front of son while changing or shower.It might not that weird.But if U saying masturbate front of U it is really embarrassing while a mom seeing her son masturbate front of her.And that is really weird for a mom to allow her son doing that.Masturbation actually is a private job to be done in a private place there nobody will seeing it.I'm can't accept while I'm masturbate and let my mom to see it.If only seeing my naked body that should no problem.Even I'm already growing up,but sometime my mom still will take shower with me.
2006-10-26 17:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're simply a pair of free spirits to me. I'm all for domestic nudity. HOWEVER, your son is at an age where EVERYTHING is a sexual turn-on, and since he masturbated in front of you, I'd say it's time for a change.
2006-10-26 11:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be comfortable around your children, however i think that you are to free with your son. You should really get help for this.
2006-10-26 11:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm not to weird or wrong up until the point that he's ok masterbating in front of you. that's not great, you need to find a way of telling him to close the door when he does that.
2006-10-26 12:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by purple_ocean_sky 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
that's not good because in a point of a young mans life he grows to ayoung man he's at the age were he's sheding and becoming a young man it was ok when he was younger but now you got put limits on certain things you do around him and thats a form of child sexual abuse if you need a couple of pamplets you can get them from the nearst doctors office
2006-10-26 12:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by kiara n 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes this is wrong . You should never be naked around a young boy who is so young . He does not think about anything else but sex and the body of a woman. do not do it again and get some help from a therapist.
2006-10-26 11:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
give your number mom
ya that is wrong then when he has kid he'll let his kids walk arund nekid and u could all of a sudden have someone come over. plus it's just not right unless your a couple
2006-10-26 12:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋