2006-10-26 11:39:52 · 14 answers · asked by Best Man 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ever thought that maybe you were curious. Maybe you need to experiment to get it out of your system or figure out if your gay or not.
2006-10-26 11:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by bigtittybytch40dd 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, just because people are telling you this and I want to assure you otherwise, you aren't gay just because you want him! Sure, you might be, (or you might be bisexual, bicurious, experimenting, whatever), but love is gender-blind. So don't worry about that; you can be straight and fall in love with an attractive man.
Now, that said, all I can say is "Go get him!". Seriously, treat this like you would any girl you thought was attractive- do whatever it is that you do to woo, flirt, and get a date. Just because it's a guy doesn't mean it's a new situation . . . well, some things might change ;).
I hope you get him!
2006-10-26 21:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by cando_86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on whether that guy's gayor not
and wheether you are lustfully attracted to him or not.
If he's gay and all you want to do with him is have sex...and he's you're "average" gay guy (c'mon...we do tend to be a bit hornier), then I'm sure y'all can forge out a "friends with privellages relationship.
If however, you're in it for something long term...become good freinds with him, go swimming, then tell him one day...and statrt dating from there if things go well
CAUTION: My last bf...I was romantically atttracted....he however, would only accept lust from me and I was stuoid enough to think that more physical=more emotions... don't have sex or confess ur feelign right away...it jsut doesn't work like that most of the time because you need an element of seductino over the other person as well....you need to make them want you, and you cant give them everything on a silver plattter or you'll be come their "female dog".
2006-10-26 18:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by RaimundoL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My best friend M was attracted to me in sixth form at school, even though he was sure he was straight. He said at the time he was in love with me, but not lust as he couldn't feel that way for a boy. Eventually a long time after, he did become my boyfriend, (but we're just friends again now) and now he's out as bi - he's still very attracted to women, too.
I'm not sure I anwered your question - I think what I'm saying is that if you want him you are probably gay or bi, and if he is too then you should just go for it if he's interested.
2006-10-26 19:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do u know the definition of gay. It is being sexually attracted and desiring the same sex in a sexual nature. So, u r gay . What u should be asking is "How do I make the process of coming out of the closet, easy?"
2006-10-26 18:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by icon2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a guy and you like another guy, then you're either gay or bi. ok, find out about his ex and what he likes. get closer to him. if you go to the movies with him(and if you not sure if he likes guys, go with him as friends)and slowly lean closer to him throughout the movie. if he gives you the 'What the hell do you think you're doing?' or 'frightened little puppy' look(then you know he doesn't like guys...or he might be thinking you're going to bite his ear off or something)just say you're tired. or you could do something completely different, it depends on how old you are. i'm 15, so thats how i would do it.
2006-10-26 20:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by boombox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a guy then guess what.....your gay
just go out with him
Its never to late to go gay:)
2006-10-26 19:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he is gay or bi, then find out if he wants you too. if so, go for it.
btw, if you are a guy that wants to have sex with another guy then you are either gay or bisexual.
2006-10-26 18:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, it doesn't hurt to ask you will never know until you try. Hopefully you're not talking about me
2006-10-26 22:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're at least somewhat bisexual, but I believe most people are.
2006-10-26 20:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by irongrama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋