My girlfriend is always being chatted up and,although i know she loves me,i can't help being jealous.What should i do?
2006-10-26 11:35:17 · 24 answers · asked by filou 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry !
2006-10-29 09:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend should be aware of how you feel, and if she is not, then politely and kindly explain how it makes you feel. If she cares about you, she will be kind and sensitive and will build up your confidence by SHOWING you how much she really likes/loves/cares for you. Jealousy is a feeling that happens, therefore we cannot stop it happening. It means that you are really keen on this girl so she should recognise this too. If you feel she knows how you feel, and is encouraging all this flirting, then she either has low self esteem herself so needs the attention, or perhaps she is not confident in how you feel about her so is trying to make you show her. If you think she is doing this deliberately just to make you feel unhappy, then sorry, but she dont love you that much and she certainly has no respect for you.
2006-10-26 18:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy isn't bad it lets your partner know that you really care. But if it gets out of hand you can have a nasty problem. Let her know how you feel. Remember though she had a life before you and she may have male friends and unless she starts becoming very secretive you really don't have anything to worry about.
Also, take the time to take an interest in her friends and make them your own.
2006-10-26 19:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at your glass as half empty. Think another way your girlfriend is hot that's why other men chat her up so you should consider your self lucky stop being jealous or you will push her away.
2006-10-26 18:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by simjam31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy just happens, you can't really control it. At least you know you're wrong for being jealous, but as long as you don't behave stupidly or act on your jealousy you should be fine. People say that true love won't feel jealousy, but that's nonsense. Love is naturally possessive.
2006-10-26 18:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how u show it... getting blamed for people talking to you is the worst feeling ever... i use to have to blank people i knew for the easy life... all i can suggest is to find out why u feel insecure enough to be jealous, u know she loves so u should feel proud that this wonderful lady is yours, and every time a man looks at her think how lucky u are that she is in love with u...... good luck
2006-10-26 18:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is normal, just dont act on it.
Think of it this way, she is a pretty attractive girl, but she chose you. Women tend to enjoy getting chatted up, it boosts our moral and makes us feel good, so just be proud youve got a georgeous girl who is with you.
2006-10-26 18:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous serves no purpose except make you feel bad. If you don't trust her find a girl you can trust.
2006-10-26 18:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by bubu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky you u got a girl guys like. if you had an ugly girl aint nobody looking her way. i'll tell you.. i'm a jealous woman also even though i know my man loves me. aint nothing wrong in being jealous but sometimes we are over doing it. trust your girl okey.
2006-10-26 18:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by honeyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realise that you are the only one that she loves to get close and personal with. A lil bit of jelousy is normal just dont let it ruin your relationship.
2006-10-26 18:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by savio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and forget the jealousy and smile when they chat her up, you know shes with you and see how good it makes you feel when/if they ask her out when she says shes taken, your heart will jump!
if you trust this girl you have absolutely nothing to worry about! keep smiling!x
2006-10-27 04:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋