My dad's best friend started sexually abusing me about a year ago and it's only getting worse it has to stop. How do i tell him?
2006-10-26 11:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by baby_gurl1492 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Assuming that you are a minor ...
1) Go to the police and tell them. They will file a complaint and tell your parents for you.
2) Talk to your counselor at school and ask them for help in contacting the police and in talking with your parents.
3) Talk to your priest/minister/rabbi and ask them to help you contact the police and to tell your parents.
The bottom line is that you do not deserve to be treated this way. You have done nothing wrong. Stand up for yourself. You will feel much better.
2006-10-26 11:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible thing for you to go through! I know it's hard to tell your parent something like that. If you have a close adult friend, or a school counselor, or someone else that can help you talk to your dad, that may help. Tell that person first, maybe he or she can then talk to your dad for you or with you. Don't let this slide, though, take control, and you will feel better and be empowered. You are a strong person, you can get through this. I was molested repeatedly by my mom's boyfriend, and I can tell you that by coming forward takes control away from that person and puts it back in your hands. You will be a happier, healthier person, and able to recover from this if you can get it out in the open. Your dad NEEDS to know this, please have courage and find some way of letting him know. It may be the hardest thing you've ever done, but it's the best thing you can do. Is your mom around? Maybe she can help. I wish I could do more for you. It just makes me cry to think of it.
I'll be thinking of you and hoping and praying for the best for you. Goddess Bless
2006-10-26 11:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dad need to know that his best friend is abusing you. Just write him a letter and tell your dad it is very important that he need to read this letter >Tell in the letter something happen to me dad and i can only put it on paper. Tell him you need help. And belive when your dad finds out. His friend world isn't going to be a pretty world after your dad get done with him. Dad are very protective over their girls. Just write him a note. But he needs to know
2006-10-26 11:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
set your dad down and tell him that you have something important to tell him and then tell him to keep his friend away from you and tell him why dads are usually very protective with there daughters
2006-10-26 11:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by james m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help tell your dad and everyone Elise you know that may be able to help you someone in school,"teacher,Counseler"
do it today don't wait. Just tell him now!!
2006-10-26 11:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Tell him when you two are alone. No one would interrupt. I'm sorry, there is no special way to tell such a horrible thing. Just tell him right now
2006-10-26 11:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him!!!! And if you can't then call the police now!!! It's been a year you need help now!!!!!Call the cops and let them handle you dad! GOOD LUCK, DO IT NOW!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 11:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor you need to tell the police. Molestation is a serious crime and you should report it at once.
2006-10-26 11:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he is your Dad , if he doesn't listen call a cop .
2006-10-26 12:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police - once you tell them the story, they'll inform your dad.
2006-10-26 11:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋