need to stop masturbating, can you help or give any advice.
its hard to do this in a society that everything revolves around sex. movies, TV, advertising, clothes, conversation...everything in the UK has got to do with sex, and it soo hard to stop.
can you help?
2006-10-26 11:18:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
look at my several answers to this subject and email me I will try to help you come up wiht a way to stop. I have to go to a class now so I do nothavge time to answer fully.
I hope you are a virgin and I hope you are sincere. LEt us talk about it back and forth over the email and then I will answer you.
If you donot e-mail me by the time I get to answer agin you answer will be closed.
Only email me if after reading some of what I have said you think I might be able to help you. Email me only if you feel comfortable doing so.
2006-10-26 11:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Answer M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why woudl anyone want to stop doing that whichis healthy, normal and actually has some specific benefits for guys (namely a drop in risk of prostate cancer).
Sure, if masturbation is dominating your life, then it can be good to find ways to reduce the frequency but otherwise once a day or even twice is good for you.
If masturbation is overtaking you though and preventing you from having a normal social life, keepign you away from sports or hobbies and generally leaving you alone all the time with your penis, then you really need to work on cutting back.
Best ways are to go out and make friends in non-sexual situations like workign out at the gym, attending church or church activities, socializing with neighbours and people at work or school. Basically go join the Y, get into swimming and other exercise programs, participate in other activites and you will find as you divert your energy toward all these terrific outlets and get to know people in various circles you will not need to masturbate nearly as much.
2006-10-27 07:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a more realistic goal and cut it down to twice a week. If you ever get that far, then do once a week. That would be pretty dam good if you achieved that. Remember, it's not the masturbating thats so bad, its what you think of and what you are watching.
2006-10-26 11:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rockford 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a natural human instinct. Every man and woman does it and if they tell you any different they are liars. Just deal with it the best you can .what i would do is grab it by the neck and choke it into submission every time it got excited.Oops that is masturbating.
2006-10-26 11:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the dumbest question I've ever heard. No offense!
Why would you possibly need to stop masturbating? No, don't even tell me. Probably either "religion" or some other neurosis.
There are even health benefits to masturbating in lieu of sex.
Is that it? You jack off so much you kill your drive for actual sex? All I can say in that case is, moderation! But I don't think it's really feasible to stop masturbating.
2006-10-26 11:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to stop?
It's free!
It feels good!
You don't have to wine and dine your hand!
There is no wrong way to do it!
You don't have to worry about getting a STD, HIV or AIDS!
Clean up is easy!
And, It is possibly the best way to make yourself feel good about yourself!
2006-10-26 11:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dan J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just try not to be alone and go outside and find something to do that will keep your mind off of it.
2006-10-27 19:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?!!!! There is nothing wrong with masturbation, as long as it is done in private. Enjoy. this is one of our few free pleasures.
2006-10-26 11:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by world traveler 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may not be all thgat wise to deny yourself, but you have to work on a cessation of desire.
2006-10-26 11:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop doing something that's so pleasant?
2006-10-26 12:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋