My husband asked for anal sex one night but i refused as I felt I was not ready. I then went on all fours expecting to have intercoure through my vagina only he forced his penis into my anus. I was scared and told him to stop, I was in pain through out. He is never like this....what should I do?
2006-10-26 11:13:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a man should respect his wife if she dont want anal sex then dont force her,you should slap the **** out of him and show him what it felt like for you
2006-10-26 11:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 8⤊ 7⤋
Forced To Do Anal
2016-10-04 14:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a big dildo about twice the size of his penis and one night while having a little foreplay cram it up his butt and pump it up and down really hard a few times and then tell him this is what it felt like when you screwed my poop shoot. I would think this would take care of that problem.
You could also tell him that you want him to stick a dildo of your pickings in his butt why you watch or participate to make sure he actually does it. Who knows it might turn you on. If he does not want to do this refuse sex. I am a guy and I would do this if it would get me sex. I like the way it feels personally, but I doubt I am normal since I was molested at the age of 8. Always made me curious of what it felt like so I tried it and found it felt good. The real thing feels the best. It is the warmth and unlimited movements that make the difference.
I would suggest maybe trying this on yourself. Start slow and stimulate your anus with pressure until one finger fits and use it for a while and then try two, three, and then four or five fingers. When you learn how to relax your anus you will feel one of the most intense pleasures you can experience. I would also suggest you and your husband try this togehter. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Relax and let it in it feels great. Use lots of lube this is definetly your number one secret to anal success.
2006-10-26 20:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Men are pigs. And when it comes to anal sex, some men just can't take no for an answer. I have an ex who tried and tried to convince me to have anal sex with him. At first I didn't think anything of it. But when he kept insisting and trying to pressure me into it, I knew it was going to be a problem. Needless to say, the relationship ended and I never gave in.
This is your husband. The man who vowed to honor and respect you as long as you both shall live. Nothing he says or does to apologize is going to take back what he did, he raped you. No question about it. As far as what should you do about it? It's up to you if you want to report him to the police. Obviously he needs help. If you say he is never like this, this could be a sign of a deeper issue he has within himself.
I wish you the best of luck...
2006-10-30 03:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
ok, this is a tough one. sex needs to be consensual.
if he has a pattern of forcing u, u might need to dovorce.
otherwise, have a talk. read about anal sex. decide what u want.
i would caution u to think that anal is bad and painful. you had a bad experience, but it does not mean that it has to be painful. if u love him, u may want to think about adding this o your sexual routine. buy sex toys designed for the butt. get used to it. it can feel nice to have a sex toy in your vagina while having anal.
one thing i would suggest is that u buy a strap on and return him the favor. may be offer him a deal that if he takes it, u may consider anal... after he is out of the dog house.
good luck
2006-10-26 12:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by mariecaroline43215 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You husband must be on some kind of drugs if he isn't like this. Drugs can change a person. Or he is watching to many dirty movies and wanted to try some of the position on you . For you to tell him no that is totally wrong. I will tell him the next time he does something that you said no to . That you are going to live him.
2006-10-26 11:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The guy is a total douche and you should divorce him. Nothing wrong with anal sex - but when somebody says no that means you can't just do it anyway... there's a name for that - it's called "rape".
2006-10-28 20:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Brooks B 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well it happen to me 3 nites ago I was having a bad dream my husband woke me up with his penis in my anal trying to put it in saying iam awake up this mother f so iam leaving him ive asked an asked him not to eachtime he says hes sorrie an goes back trying over an over I love him but the other night did it for me hes been inprison the biggest part of his lifeni feel he has been with me an using me as an cover up
2014-04-20 06:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by sugarmama d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Melanie K - Anal sex can be enjoyable - but no sex is, when forced.
You need to have a serious talk with him!
2006-10-26 18:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Force like that is unacceptable. Anal sex can be enjoyable but using force is not right. He needs to admit he was wrong, if he doesn't you need to get out of there ASAP.
2006-10-26 12:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie K 1 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Tell him that this is something that you do not want to do and that he hurt you! Sounds like he wasn't thinking about you at all. You really need to talk to him about this so that it doesn't happen again. Good luck!
2006-10-26 11:21:31 · answer #11 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋