this is not a pervert question. NO PERVERTS THANKS. basically i find it hard to pop a female cherry when shes a virgin, i have a fear of doing so, and i think if i show im scared she might think i dont like her or something so how can i get over this fear. I dont have a problem having sex with non virgins.
IS THIS NORMAL to not want to pop it with your finger or penis?
2006-10-26 10:55:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
don't sleep with virgins then
2006-10-26 10:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Erm....
I think the key to this is lubrication and forgetting that she is a virgin perhaps.
Or just avoid them. There aren't many 17 year old virgins in the world from what the Daily Mail says anyway...
2006-10-26 17:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Martin G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In todays society, this question means you are preying on Nursery School children. You should definitely feel sick, sicko!
Plus, if you're actually talking about adult women, then you're just obviously terrified of a virgin calling you crap! Get a grip!
2006-10-26 18:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by alfie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there aren't many virgins these days anyway and if you happen to know she is a virgin then try not to think about it and it that dont work then dont have sex. simple.
2006-10-30 13:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably a mental thing...Probably deep down you're shy of really disappointing a virgin for life...its not that common, but there are a few others like you out there, so don't worry
2006-10-26 18:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This shows you to be a decent person and perhaps your a better option for a girls first time as most guys think only of themselves .
2006-10-26 17:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not going to pop anything. the 'cherry' is actualy called the hymen and it is a thin membrane that is usually already torn by exercise or tampons. your not going to hurt anyone and you probably wouldnt notice anyway.
2006-10-26 19:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by shining star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try hypnotherapy? And if you don't want perverts answering try not to use language that the pervs can relate to...
(I.E "pop it")
2006-10-26 17:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by uk_lad_2003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't pop it. Let her do it then watch.j/k. most chicks have already popped "it" during excercise or other activities. Becareful though...you pop it, you own it. Most girls tend to fall for their first and thats a fact. if you're not ready for that then you should probably back away or make clear its not love, just sex. have fun:)
2006-10-26 18:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Coach ART 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get married first
2006-10-26 18:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummm?.why dont you let her wait till she gets married...tell her YOU respect her too much to make this desicion for her,try being the ":MAN" you claim to be and not an immature little boy....grow up..
2006-10-26 18:00:38 · answer #11 · answered by crystal d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋