been married 21 years, get along, and are a Scorpio and Sagitarius
2006-10-26 10:51:25
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answered by toomeymimi 4
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my husband & I are both firstborns! We don't fit ANY of the things that they say get along well--2 first borns, a libra (me) and a virgo (him) a sanguine (me) and a choleric (him)--that's two very dominant personalities. We loved each other and from the start loved that neither would take any crap from the other; we loved the honesty AND the tenderness in our relationship. After the first year or so, it was VERY difficult because we both thought we were the captain of the ship, not the other. We fought a LOT and almost divorced once or twice (especially after we had our second baby); HOWEVER, the same strength and stubbornness that made us love each other, then not be able to gt along at all, was the stubbornness that made us determined to make it work and find the joy we originally had with each other. We are so in love now--for the last 2 or 3 years, and have been married for nearly 10 years. I can safely say that we are both committed to each other for life at this point. But if you asked me that several years ago, I would have said it might have ended in divorce. At any rate, we stuck through the hard times, let it bond us together even more, and are very committed to each other's happiness and wellbeing now. TOUGH BUT WORTH IT!!! :)
2006-10-26 10:56:19
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answered by Hot Lips 4077 5
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well i was in a relationship like this, I am Aquarius, he was Aries. We didnt get along much, it was hard because both of us wanted to be the boss, which explains why I am with a middle child Scorpio now. Ha Ha Ha, but seriously, it is kinda hard for two firstborns to live together, but if there is a will, then there is definately a way................good luck!!!
2006-10-26 13:58:58
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answered by heather_b_cody 1
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Well, I am the first born in my family & my honey is an only child. We are both Picies and we are very compatible. We don't really do anything specific to get along, we just do.
2006-10-26 10:53:35
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answered by Amber 2
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i'm an extremely severe human being and substances all that I have in a relationship so the wear is severe after I chop up with a love. My first husband cheated on me, we had 3 toddlers by technique of then, i tried puzzling to make our relationship artwork for 16 years yet sure it nonetheless damage some after I stumbled on out he became marrying yet another women human beings and that i became already marrying my 2d husband. i imagine it became the actual shown actuality that we had a relations at the same time and that i became disillusioned nonetheless that he hadn't tried tougher to make our relations artwork. My 2d husband is actual my old flame, I had prevalent him even as i became 18 and we were given married later in existence, i became very damage after I stumbled on out that he became residing with yet another women human beings after he abandoned my toddlers and that i yet then i realized that he continually abandoned relations and acquaintances, he doesn't enable himself to experience someone elses love so even as it nonetheless hurts somewhat i think alleviation understanding that it wasn't for the lack of me attempting and that gives you me more effective peace of ideas and heart.
2016-12-05 06:33:05
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answered by Anonymous
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NO we are not the first born...he is a middle child and I am the first born (which may explain my bossiness...although that can also be credited to my sign--pisces women tend to be very bossy)
He is a Taurus (damn stubborn bull) and I am a Pisces (hey, he keeps me grounded...)
and I love him to death. Literally.
2006-10-26 13:09:30
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answered by vdubbchick 4
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not answering the sign question because i think that is a bunch of b.s.
my husband and i are first borns and we get along just fine. i'm guessing you are aiming your question towards the whiny brat-like, i- want- everything- my- way first borns...
you have to get along in life whether you are married or not. you don't see people getting into car accedients and saying, 'oh, i'm a first born so it's not my fault.'
2006-10-26 10:53:16
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answered by onlylove41 4
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I am not sure what you are asking. Both my wife and I are the eldest of our sibling groups. I do not think that has any effect on our relationship. I am a Cancer and my wife is a Libra.
2006-10-26 10:52:05
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answered by david42 5
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you get along because you're different people. who we are is determined by genes and environment (and this has been proven by science), not stars and their alignment.
2006-10-26 10:52:01
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answered by mighty_power7 7
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my man and i are just the opp. we are both the younger sibling out of two kids. i'm a Gemini and he is ..... well his b-day is December 6th
2006-10-26 10:52:17
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answered by Stacey 3
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