2006-10-26 10:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes it would be possible. There are certain things that I did not think sounded enjoyable. But I found in time I did enjoy them. But the key for me was taking it slow with the new activity.
If you have a partner that is willing to take it in small steps then you may grow to like it. But make sure that you partner understands if you say stop that it means stop. He/she is to stop the activity at once.
Make sure you lay out the ground rules before stating it. Have a long talk about to make sure you understand what the plan is before hand.
2006-10-26 11:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by pj_gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the person and what the something is. There are some weird things of the sexual nature and some you probably should have an extreme fear of.
2006-10-26 17:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dolby21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't gotten to the "grown to like" phase with one particular technique, but having a loving and committed partner that *wasn't* obsessively trying to talk me into it was a big help in getting me to actually give it a shot. One of my exes kept asking and asking if we could try it, and that irritated the snot out of me because it felt like he wasn't listening to me when I said I had misgivings.
I expect it will depend on why you're afraid of it - whether or not it's a fear that can be dispelled via direct experience (i.e. being afraid of anal sex because you think it will hurt too much to be enjoyable).
2006-10-26 17:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Extreme fear?
Sounds weird, I'd guess not.
2006-10-26 17:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by loon_mallet_wielder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I think you can become accustomed to almost anything given the time and constant exposure.
2006-10-26 17:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Minina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i married my wife she did not like her boobs touched at all, now i can get her to do anything with just the right play
2006-10-26 19:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by stalkin ya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course.........as people age or relationsships age or become stale....you always find the thing you once thought wierd,or scarey,or even crazy.....erotic or a turn on
2006-10-26 17:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by FIRE&ICE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible but that depends on you and your partner.
2006-10-26 17:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Anything is possible.
2006-10-26 17:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEHIND EVERY FEAR IS A DESIRE
WHATS YOURS?
2006-10-26 18:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋