I average once a month, just wondering how normal this is or if it's a problem. Any ideas?
2006-10-26 10:32:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Each couple is individual. Your schedule and stresses will be different than the next persons. There are some couples who don't even do it once a month. Try talking with your wife also taking up some of the load that might be overwhelming her so that she can have more personal time to focus on herself. If she doesn't feel good about herself this can inhibit her desire.
2006-10-26 15:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by kane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We have sex about 3-4 times a week, but we've only been married 3 years. How long have you been married and how old are you? If you've been married for several years and you're getting up there in age then once a month is probably normal. It's not a problem unless one of you is not satisfied. And no, not all men need it all the time. I actually have a higher sex drive than my husband. As long as you are both fine with once a month and it's good that once a month, it's fine.
2006-10-26 11:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least 3 to 4+ times a week...we have been married for 6 years.
2006-10-26 11:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how many times a week I have sex with my husband. You aren't involved in my sex life. Having sex once a month is only a problem if you want it more and your wife is unwilling. Then you need to take this issue up with your wife, not on here. Different people have different sex drives.
2006-10-26 11:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the first 10 years it 5 times a week. Now only 1 a week
2006-10-26 10:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My situation is not really normal, but maybe every 3 months or so. He has health and sex issues. Me, i am red blooded and do without, most of the time!! But, we r at the separation stage.
In a normal relationship, it is what the 2 of u want. If one wants it more, u need to do some compromising for the other. maybe u need more romance first??
2006-10-26 10:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It varies from once a week to 5 times a week. Depending on the time of month.
2006-10-26 10:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My husband and I have sex maybe twice a week which to me is a little abnormal. Is there something else going on are you guys just getting so caught up in your lives that your too tired at night to have sex? Are you abnormally stressed or is he? Who intiates sex when you do? It is not healthy or your relationship no matter how long you have been together unless there are other factors in play. You should try to figure out what is going on and really try to have that intimacy with one another.
2006-10-26 10:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Everyday. Sometimes twice a day if we have time. We both have very high sex drives. If you are both satisfied with once a month then it's all good.
2006-10-26 11:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by sleepless in NC 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I realize you directed this question to women but...
Once a month is not enough. You can't keep a "closeness" bond if you only connect once a month. Men think about sex a few times every hour of every day. Do you think once a month is enough? More is necessary and might even bring you closer together.
2006-10-26 10:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by lopie6 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋