my wife 'accidentally' saw my best friend getting out of the shower, and now she can't stop talking about how hot he is and how well endowed he is. I am pretty small in that area, and feel a little intimidated and turned on at the same time. Although, when she talks about him, she acts like she is just joking. should I be worried?
2006-10-26 10:30:58 · 27 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She wants him. Try a threesome. Those always sound hot to me!
2006-10-26 10:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is completely inappropriate for your wife to talk about how well endowed your best friend is, or any other guy for that matter. Let her know how you feel about this. You have a right to feel uncomfortable; she's making you feel inadequate and teasing you.
On to the next subject: if you feel somewhat turned on, have you had thoughts of homosexuality? Are you attracted to your friend? If this is the case, why would you stay in the relationship at all?
2006-10-26 10:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might quite communicate along with her approximately her preoccupation with your pal's ah, visual attraction. If she gets dissatisfied, then particular, you in all risk have reason to rigidity. i think of it became from Shakespeare, "she protests too lots." it quite is on no account a sturdy sign. tell her how uncomfortable you're along with her talking approximately him, and in step with risk even ask her how she might sense in case you observed her pal bare and then talked constantly approximately her pal's breasts. If once you talk to her approximately it, if she seems basically apologetic and then would not communicate approximately him to any extent further in that regard, i do no longer think of you have something to rigidity approximately. yet while she gets unnecessarily dissatisfied, in simple terms be careful. and don't wait. The longer you wait to confront her, the longer you will in all risk could hear approximately your pal's endowment. sturdy good fortune!
2016-10-16 10:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by hultman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, your wife is giving you subtle hints in gentle way....you need to figure out why she's talking about him more then paying attention to you as well as see how they interract with each other. My own husband doesn't pay enough attention to me and still doesn't get it...and I'm very close with his best friend...we don't cheat to cheat...we aren't like men (sorry guys). We are lonely and need to fill a void...so figure out what's going on and maybe you both need counseling and need to re-evaluate your marriage. You loved her when you married her and her you...
Good luck...
PS....size doesn't always matter...(it's how you use it and how you perform....so don't sell yourself out....for all you know he could be a 2 stroker...) :)=
2006-10-26 10:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by nuggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I don't believe that she would "accidentally" walk in on him getting out of the shower
2. You are concerned, or else you wouldn't be asking us
2006-10-26 10:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, u have something to be concerned about...especially if this is all she talks about. It's pretty rude for her to keep mentioning it in front of u like that.
2006-10-26 10:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't there a door in your restroom? hm I wouldn't worry to much about it unless you don't trust your wife or your best friend.
2006-10-26 10:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a problem. Talk to her.
And you are turned on by all this? Maybe you are bi?
2006-10-26 11:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its really all that appropriate to talk about such things with a spouse. Tell her You don't want to hear it anymore.
2006-10-26 10:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't like hearing about his privite areas, if you wanted to know about them you would pull his pants down.
2006-10-26 10:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋