2006-10-26 10:18:38 · 38 answers · asked by P D U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes! always be honest with your feelings.
2006-10-26 18:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are compelled to tell her something, then just tell her the truth, the whole truth about how you might have feelings for her, yet are also concerned over whether you should even be having such a conversation. It's up to her as to how she chooses to react to whatever anyone might say to her. She could say; "Wow, I'm flattered", or "Go F-off". If you do this, be prepared for nothing good to come of it. Chances are, in some way, sooner or later it's going to bring something bad that you didn't count on. Just asking this question tells me that maybe you should keep it to yourself for now, at least until you are super comfortable with your own thoughts and feelings on all this. No rush, right?
2006-10-26 10:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. and why? B/c she's simply married. By tellin her, you'd be hoping she'll love you back. Whether she does or not, is still disrespectful to her marriage and husband. It would be pointless to tell her. You should rather fall in love with people that are available.
2006-10-26 10:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you happen to be married to her, by all means tell her you love her. If you are not married to her do not tell her you love her.
2006-10-26 10:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by SevenZulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her. Don't forget to mention how hot and sexy she is and how you think about her every waking second of the day and dream about her every sleeping minute. She will be flattered at the very least.
You are the only one that knows who you are to her so husband or not I would say tell her.
We need to hear these things often. wink*wink*
2006-10-26 10:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional and unselfish---so no, do not tell the married woman that you love her. If you really love her her happiness will be more important than yours....
2006-10-26 10:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's just not your place! She is married, therefore committed to her husband (hopefully). If the feeling mutual she will leave her husband volunarily and without all the strings attached if she has been pulled in your direction, by you.
2006-10-26 10:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love her,husband or not tell her how you feel she might feel the same for you. You won't know unless you try. Just be careful of the fall out if she doesn't return your effection.
2006-10-26 10:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her? Sure but it depends on what context. On one hand she may be in a terrible relationship in which she should get out of. On the other that would complicate things for her. So in my opinion for the most part no you shouldnt. There are plenty of women out there find one that isnt taken.
2006-10-26 10:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the circumstances. if you think she loves you back then it might be exactly what shes been waiting to hear, if your not sure i think you should keep it to yourself until she says something it will just stress her out, making her choose between you and her husband, because trust me its most likely to end badly for you. but you should never give up the opportunity to tell some one you love them because you never know when it will be the last.
2006-10-26 10:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO! Absolutely not. Flattering it may be for her, but if ya'll are friends you'll make the relationship very awkward. Please also consider how you would feel if you were married and your wife had a guy-friend after her. You deserve someone that's not already taken.
2006-10-26 10:26:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋