OK, LETS START WITH THIS! she ( my friend ) told me that she had been sexual harrsed but, when she was young WHEN THIS HAPPEND. i wont say no name but she told me she was a bout 6 and at that time he was in his late 60. iF you were her would you tell. most of the time people say "yes,tell" but just imagine, you in tihs situtation, scared and dont know what to do. AND SHES ONLY 12 NOW.
2006-10-26 10:17:01 · 9 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The important to remember is that your friend told you -so she obviously wants to talk about it , telling someone about this can be the most horrifing thing in the world I know it happened to me when I was a child , I couldn't say it in words so I wrote it down instead and I glad that I did because even if it's not you or friend it happens to again that horrible person will do it again and again never stopping until they are caught and more importantly your friend needs emotional help and support from a professional level to deal with this or it will destoy her life
2006-10-26 10:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this still happening now or is she having night mares about it if either ones is happening then yes tell her to tell her mom and dad an ask her is she would like you to be their when she tells them that way she will feel more comfortable but,if it is not happening anymore and she is not having bad dreams from it then if she tells they may think she is doing it for attention and that will just get her in trouble so make sure first
2006-10-26 17:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by krazy4_coke2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell someone. Obviously the person who did this to her is very sick and he'll continue to molest children until he's stopped. If she hesitates, ask her if she wants what happened to her to happen to anyone else because it will unless he's stopped. Tell her to be brave and know that she's doing the right thing.
2006-10-26 17:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by brainy_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might want to start by talking to a school counselor or school psychologist, especially since she might not feel comfortable discussing this with her parents at this time. Then she and the counselor can go from there.
2006-10-26 17:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through that when i was younger. but i have not told my mother or any one really close to me because what can really be done after the time has passed? nothing. you can stay away form the person but their is really no punishment for what happend a long time ago.
2006-10-26 17:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by thickyellabone08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told tell it may help stop him from doing it to someone else , It happened to me and I never told the person has abused all the girls in my family.
2006-10-26 17:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie Muggins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know how much i hate ****** people stupid @ss perves if i had the chance to kill that muthafucka that did that to ur friend im sorry is just that my cousin got harrased to like that but she told her parents tell ur friend she needs to tell someone pls
2006-10-26 17:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't be scared.
it'll help her get a lot of things off of her chest, and out of her mind if people know. then they can get help for her.
2006-10-26 17:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she should tell, it wasnt her fault
2006-10-26 17:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋