2006-10-26 10:12:04 · 21 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because the other woman undoubtedly is satisfying his sexual needs which is something many wives don't do and she isn't nagging or complaining about life
2006-10-26 10:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems the guy has found a way not to confront an issue or let off steam. He has gone so far as to cheat. He obviously might not be saying what is really bothering him or just wants to avoid confrontation altogether. I think I would be calm too if I could have an ample supply of attention and sex multiplied by two. As for any real connection he is missing out and will hurt him in the long run.
2006-10-26 10:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just an excuse, I couldn't look my wife in the eye if I ever "and wouldn't" cheated. Being calm & happy while doing something like that, he's not a real man are a husband.
2006-10-26 10:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't work: the reason being that a married man cheats because he wants to cheat---and telling his wife all those excuses is just to justify his behavior. The bottom line is that a man who cheats is not very happy at home, but for one reason or another(money, children, convenience)does he not want to give up the comfort he gets at home...that is the truth of the matter, everything else is nothing but a lot of b.s.
2006-10-26 10:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
because, by nature, most men want it all. Men are genetically driven to the conquest. Once married, the hunt is over and boredom sets in. Your husband is more at peace with himself when he has something on the side to keep his animal instincts satisfied and probably treats you better too, in and out of bed. However, if this is something you just cannot accept and he is doing this, then I guess you got to go and find one of those few men that have somehow managed to detach themselves from nature and can operate on a totally cerebral level, if any such man does exist. In the end, it doesn't make men bad creatures, it is natures way, so maybe it's a good thing. Good luck!
2006-10-26 10:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably bored... No sex expectations at home. Less stress.... Men don't like getting turned down.. Problem is most men start falling in love with the other. It should be nothing more than exercise - emotionally and physically for men. There you go..
2006-10-26 10:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its guilt thats why that works. You feel more sorry for someone that way I suppose. Like if your wife or spouse nagged you to much and they got on your nerves for one reason or another then if they find someone else then they develop guilty feelings. Which makes you look like a wonderful person.
2006-10-26 10:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt
2006-10-26 10:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justification.
2006-10-27 04:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife denies me se# 13 our of 14 nights,
I haven't cheated on my wife since march of 2005, but have had "other women" that I have talked to on the internet and one woman i fell in love with over the phone, and i mean real love not just lust,
but basically, why should i get all mad about my wife not having se# with me, if i have it with someone on the side,
im a dog if that makes me a bastard o well
2006-10-26 10:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
because some men like making thier wives feel inferior. doing something like that would make the wife feel like she wassn't good enough.
2006-10-26 10:31:11 · answer #11 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋