well i have feelings for this white boy in my class. well we have been talking and he has come over my house and we have kissed. just the other day he came and got me from a friends house and we went to his house. so we were at his house and we were talking. then he got up and closed the door and locked it. so he was like lets pick up where we stoped. so we started kissing and then next thing you know we are taking off our clothes. we had sex and then we talked after and then got dressed. and we talked all the way to my house. but the bad part about it is that he has a girlfriend. i asked him today in school if he thought what we did was a mistake. and he said at the time no. but the bad thing about it is that he has a girlfriend and he claimes that he loves her but he's cheated on her before. so im asking what should i do. im thinking about writing him a letter and telling him how i feel but i need help on what i should put in the note. so please help.
2006-10-26 10:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by babygurlrod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's cheating on his gf he will cheat on you too!
2006-10-26 10:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your first mistake was having sex with a guy that isn't your husband. Secondly, knowingly sleeping with this boy when you know he already has a girlfriend. This says a lot about you and your character. Unfortunately, if you are doing this to get attention from this guy you are sadly mistaken. This guy is only using you, and have no respect for women. The fact is...how do you expect anyone to respect you if you don't respect yourself.
When having sex outside of marriage there are way too many things to consider..
1. HIV/AIDS
2. Unwanted pregnancy
3. Your reputation
Sex is meant to be special and shared with that very special person your husband. Sex isn't meant to be thrown around like playing ball on a field. Think about it and think about yourself..This guy is only out for one thing...
2006-10-26 10:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by WhatEVER27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. It's nothing but trouble. Really, I wouldn't even bother writing a letter, he's not worth your time.
2006-10-26 10:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by sarahalyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the girl he cheated on her,and hell go out with u after they brake up.
2006-10-26 10:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by ally 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋