Im a little shy, but not really around friends with friends i act myself and i talk alot and they think im really funny, but when it comes to girlfriends, i dont really act myself because i think that ill say or do something stupid and she might think something bad of me and break up with me. Two of my gfs have broken up wit me because i was so shy around them. What can i do to act myself, and what are the things i should do around my gf with her?
2006-10-26 09:51:44 · 18 answers · asked by Leo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Another question, when shes with her friends talking should i go up to her and like sit/stand next to her or will she be annoyed?
2006-10-26 09:58:36 · update #1
well wit dat i completely understand....and when your wit your gurl you wana be da best person possible say or do nuttin bad....so for you first of just be you...and if a gurl cant except you for dat then she doesnt deserve you, cuz you dont want no gurl dats always tryna change everything about you rite....and wit yo gurl just try ta have normal conversations wit her try ta be more comfortable around her just not too....much cuz i aint gona lie alota gurls will take advantage of dat....but all you can do is try right and you know what.....it might even help if just tell her dats its hard for you ta talk ta her and everything and if shes da sweet caring understandin kinda gurl then everything will be fine:)
2006-10-26 09:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off the girlfriends and concentrate on school. You are probably a sophomore. Girls at this age are so much more mature than you, so they think. They only want to tell you how to act, dress and talk. Give yourself time to grow in confidence. Make a personal achievement! Work towards a goal. Believe me when you have achieved some self confidence. You won't be as shy. And remember, if they don't like you as you are, then it's their loss.
2006-10-26 17:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are with the right girl they don't brakup with u if u do something stupid or when u say something stupied they will think it's cute(most of the time) , as long as u don't say something to offend her..But u should not feel shy around the girl b/c she is your girlfriend u already got that on all the other guys so u should not have to watch yourself that much.. b/c hey u already got her..so act like yourself ....
2006-10-26 17:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by animal lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move! I was scared to dance before, so i went to college in another state... When i arrived, I acted like I was the best dancer ever! Six years later, i'm a dance-aholic and know one knows I was embarrassed about it before. Its hard to change in such a way when people around you know you are actively trying to change... I suggest getting away from where you are if you can...and create an outgoing you when you get there :)
2006-10-26 16:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by love this site! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say whatever you want! she likes you for who you are, and you guys are going to fight sometimes, it just happens. she would much rather have you say what you're going to say and be yourself then be really shy around her. if something you want to say is really stupid then you'll figure it out before you say it.
chances are, you're other girlfriends broke up with you because its akward being with a guy thats to shy to talk to her!!!
2006-10-26 16:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just convince yourself that the girl your with is one of your guys friends. talk to her like you would to them (maybe a little different because she IS a girl...) and just open up. be polite and kind and i promise, unless she is the spawn of satan, that she will love you! OR spend time around her BEFORE you ask her out and really get to know her. that way when you go out it will be just like being with a friend...only a lot sweeter!
2006-10-26 16:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweetybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question here is really are you basically a jackass when you're yourself or are you easy going? Because no girl wants to be with a jackass but easy going and doing fun stuff with her, not "without her:" well then just totally relax and be yourself and when i mean "without her" I mean she's with you but you basically want to hang out with your buddies alll the time with her.
2006-10-26 16:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try not being shy around girls i mean try getting to let her get to know u
But don't rush her
then start acting like ur self
2006-10-26 16:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ali b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! If they don't like who you are, then they aren't the one for you. I'm not saying, swear, fart or spit around her, but relax and talk with her just like you are with your friends. You can act a little silly, trust me, girls like boys that make them laugh!
2006-10-26 16:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, being shy isn't a bad thing..it's just who you are. If the girl doesn't like it, meaning, they cannot accept who you are, then better off saying goodby and moving on.
2006-10-26 16:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋