like this boy NIck and we tend to flirt alot.... and last week he called me and we both talked,, i asked him him if he likes me and he said well i never really thought about it but Yes i do like u... and then i said i was cold and he said aww my poor baby do u want a bear hug.... then i called him on sat.. and told him i was at a baseball game and he said ,, your just saying that just b/c u want me to go.. and i was like if u want to u can.. so he walked after his football game to go see me at the baseball game.. we talked and stuff.... But he hasnt called me in a week and this week it seems like he's been talking to me less sorta also he ignores me..... he saw me talking to this boy and he looked at the boy with the most angriest face ever..,, like if he was going to beat him up.. and today i told him why is he acting diff and he said he wasnt.... and then he asked me if i was going to go to his football game... why do u think he's been ignoring me?? especially since a week...... .. well now i figured he lied to me and i guess he was just trying to play with my feelings... b/c my friend told him jen needs to talk to u ....(jen=me) and supposely he said .. ugh and rolled his eyes at my friend...... and 2 days after he gave an angry stare at my friend b/c he made me laugh.... but wouldnt that mean hes jealous?? so iam not sure whats going on.. iam confused.. and today i actually started a conversation, we flirted,and I said did u miss talking to me and he said Maybe ,so i was like u know maybe means 90% for me and he said... yeah i do... but then he said i was too controlling......
2006-10-26 09:50:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow. He's high maitenance. Move on to someone you don't have to coddle through a conversation, let alone a relationship!
2006-10-26 09:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure he likes you as much as he says he does Jen. He is answering you with a lot of uncertainty when he's saying maybe and all that. If he's not willing to communicate with you and express his feelings towards you, he doesn't sound like boyfriend material.
I think you deserve better. You deserve the kind of boy that loves you for who you are and isn't afraid to open himself up to you and say whatever's on his mind. I don't think you are being too controlling at all, I think that you want to spend time with him but he's not on the same wavelength that you are. I say you should move on and all, there will always be other boys.
2006-10-26 16:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might have meant to say that he likes you as a friend. now is backing off because he doesn't want you to come on to him. give him his space and let it go.
2006-10-26 16:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mistro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To much analizing! If he is frustrating you...tell him! And if that doesn't work...take a break. Look for someone who better suits you. It shouldn't be that difficult!
2006-10-26 16:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my thought are, this is the 5th time you have asked this question. what is up with that? are u just waiting to get the answer you want?
2006-10-26 16:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I think this is so stupid. Dump the guy...oh sorry..I mean the 'boy.'
2006-10-26 16:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok? complex lol
2006-10-26 16:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Madi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋