I often fantasize and watch other men and wonder whats is wrong with me. what shoud i do i have been married for ten years.
2006-10-26 09:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by kc dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe u are bisexual. Speak to your spouse about it.
2006-10-26 09:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are in fact a "dude" I would say I have absolutely no idea why your fantasizing about other dude's. Then on the other hand lots of women fantasize about other women.............so I would say your perfectly normal and you have been married ten years and your brain is trying to give you something fresh and exciting to think about.
2006-10-26 16:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you really have not provided details. On the surface tho you clearly are not happy in your world. Only you can analyze what is going on...it is called "thinking." Stop fantasizing and start thinking and if you are still unhappy seek counseling. As is you are just in a dream like state and that is the state of a walking zombie.
You are not alone...there are a lot of zombies in the world.
2006-10-26 16:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a crime to look at anyone, but when it gets physical than that is a problem. My hubby looks all the time whether it be on t.v. or on the street or in the store and that does not bother me because i know he is coming home to me. I have been married for 2 and we have been together for 4, its not a problem. Good luck. Dont let it stress you out.
2006-10-26 16:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're gay or bisexual and just never considered it before. nothing wrong with it - if it's part of who you are and makes you happy, might be worth exploring. talk to your wife, though, she deserves to know what's going on with you. and then you'll probably need to seek marital counseling (the same as if you were fantasizing about other women).
2006-10-26 16:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you are fantasizing about. Tell your wife, see what she has to say....
2006-10-26 16:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop! unless that is what you want to do.. if it is get divorced b/c the man that is in your life is obviously not fufilling your fantisies.. or maybe you should talk 2 him and tell him what you want..maybe he feels the same way.
2006-10-26 16:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by CrazyChic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. Everyone does. Whaat is important is what you do about it.
2006-10-26 16:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mistro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come out and tell ur wife its not right to keep it from her she diserves that much or go to counsling first then tell her shoot go together
2006-10-26 16:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go what u think is right. Ull never regret what is the right thing.
2006-10-26 16:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Monkeygurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋