Your best friend and her parents are killed. But you live. How do you cope with the guilt??
2006-10-26 09:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by Georgie's Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe everything happens for a reason and would try and live my life to the fullest as that is what my best friend would have wanted for me, and that is what I would want for her.
It would be an insult to her memory if I didn't do at least that.
2006-10-26 23:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Hobnobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings of Guilt will disappear in time if you choose to replace this feeling with acceptance. If your best friend and parents seen you feeling this way...they would be upset. Believe they are in a better place and looking down and protecting you. They are now your angels Angel.
2006-10-26 10:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mc D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling guilty is a normal reaction to the situation. You have to realise that unless you were the driver it cannot possibly be your fault. Mourn your loss and try to go on with your life as normal otherwise.
If the guilt feelings are severe or persist seek professional counselling, starting with your GP.
Know that all your friends sympathise with you.
2006-10-26 09:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by scrambulls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt? for what ever reason 'you' were not killed it does not mean you are guilty of anything, i would celebrate i was still alive and mourn the loss of the others.
2006-10-26 09:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by julie knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to deal with it the best way you can...
Our soldiers and their best friends are dying. We as a country are putting them in harms way. Let's bring them home and stop THE CAR ACCIDENT IN IRAQ!
2006-10-26 09:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your head up and remember, you were put on earth for a reason and it was not your time to go. They are watching over you and someday, you will reunite.
2006-10-26 09:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say im glad to be alive and god didnt want me its not your turn to cross over to other side.You have many things to experience like having a good job falling in love,getting married ,having children,experincing life .So dont cry get over it and enjoy what you have to look forward to in life.
2006-10-26 09:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by intelligentshyunique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to know one thing that you are alive for one reason to share your sorry and dont blame your self it was an accident
2006-10-26 09:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Badly!
2006-10-26 10:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to feel guilty about,we can't change what life throws at us.
2006-10-26 17:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋