I have this friend who borrowed money from me for an emergency trip. She was suppose to pay me back on her payday, which was over a month ago, since then she has been to the mall 2-Fridays in a row, buying new items and plans on going to a concert tomorrow. She has not once thought to bring me my money, should I bring this up this weekend when I see her or should I wait til she decides to bring it to me. I think if I wait too much longer, I will only intensify my anger and explode. What should I do?
2006-10-26 09:24:03 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would bring it up as soon as possible especially if it was alot and it sounds like it is. she's had enough time to pay you something and if shes got money to shop, shes got money to give you back. dont loan her anymore money!!
2006-10-26 09:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, once you lent the money did you position a time body as to even as it really is going to be paid decrease back? If not, your buddy would in basic terms not have the money and not in any respect be in a poistion to pay. in case you probably did set a time body and that has surpassed without go back of any money then you definitely are particularly correct to be aggravated. in spite of the indisputable fact that, that annoyance does not enable the right to be abusive to somebody else. i'd recommend you brush your part of the line - apologise on your buddy for the belongings you suggested and do not use the money to attempt to justify the outburst. you're shocked on the end result and that i'm particular your buddy feels as undesirable as you do. we've a saying in our crew of acquaintances that you not in any respect lend what you won't be able to arise with the money for now to not get decrease back. it really is diverse money and subsequently an expensive lesson yet you should use this adventure later in existence might want to an same difficulty upward push up.
2016-12-05 06:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to her. Hopefully it just slipped her mind but you have to bring it up. Otherwise you won't get your money and you'll just be secretly mad at her which isn't good.
2006-10-26 09:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her that she owes you some money which she promised to pay you next pay day.
2006-10-26 09:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for the money and then woop her *** or just woop her ***.
2006-10-26 09:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋