a woman meets a guy who she is very attracted too,he tells her he is single, he spends nearly a whole month with the new girl, but ex keeps callin him beggin him!! gradually the man starts not turning up when he says he is coming round, not answering his phone, saying he has things to do or sort out, the ex keeps turnin up at his house on a fri nite at 8pm he then doesnt return call till 4am n says he has been talkin with her after takin her home all that time n he couldnt just drop her off n leave she wont allow it, now he disappears most evenings during the week n wont answer phone or return calls n always has an excuse for not turning up?? this has been going on 6months now and the woman has given up alot to be with this man moved areas,lost friends n fallen in love!! the woman has already had a 6yr relationship with a liar and a cheat.....who hurt her bad....is she wrong to doubt this guy too??
2006-10-26 09:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by cuppycake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hell no her instincts arent wrong. He is still messing with the "ex" who might not even be an "ex" at all. They are still together. Looks like he went back to her after being with you. You deserve better. 6 years is too long of a time to be hanging on.
2006-10-26 10:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but your instincts are right on. Move back with your family and friends then see a therapist to find out what it is about you that attracts these jerks. That is the only way you can fix yourself and be happy. You deserve better. Good luck.
2006-10-26 16:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe than a woman with any brains of self-respect would "fall in love" with a man who spends most of his time with his "ex"-girlfriend. Obvsiouly she picked another loser, a replica of her former lover.
She's not wrong to doubt him, she's stupid for being with him after the second month.
2006-10-26 16:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋