I ask because, although I feel confortable with this range and I think he does too, after reading the average of other people, I am kind of worry. I've being married for 5 years, but we have 10 together. No kids. I'm 30, his 31. Latin couple. Not bad looking.
2006-10-26 09:06:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry about other couples. What's normal for u may not be normal for someone else. I say stick with what feels comfortable for both of u.
2006-10-26 09:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should never do in life is compare and contrast yourself to the next person. because everyone else has sex 2x a day and you only 2x a month, doesn't mean that there is something wrong with your relationship. now remember that is an average, that doesn't mean that is the same number for everyone. some could be having sex more than others and that is why you get that average. and most of those people are not married. you are a married couple and realize there is more to a relationship than sex and so connect and enjoy each other on other levels than that of sex. when others get to that point in their relationship, they will be having sex just as often as you.
2006-10-26 09:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, you do it twice a month, you animals. I have been married for 11 years and we have sex maybe 4 times a year and it really sucks, it has been this way after my second child who is now 5. It makes me feel bad and unwanted. I really do not know why but my guess would be that my wife doesn't feel the same way about me as she used to. I dont want to cheat so I masterbate every day. Eventually I feel it will cause me to search else where, I dont want to but as a human I have my needs. For your sake I would advise working on it and trying to do it more often otherwise you will lose interest in eachother and thats when the cheating comes and the hatred follows. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 09:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a latin couple or attractive doesnt mean anything. If you two are happy with that, that is all that matters. However, the fact you bring up this ques. means something. Are you all busy where you dont spend enough time together or do you guys just not find each other sexually appealing. I go crazy when i dont get with my wife for at least 2 or 3 times a week. But hey its what makes you two happy.
2006-10-26 09:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is ok with the two of you, then 2 times a month is the right amount. Some couples have sex twice a day, and others have sex once a month. Neither is correct. If both people in the marriage are happy, that is all that counts.
2006-10-26 09:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has no objective of leaving his spouse. His habit is all relating to the sport and his ego. he's taking area in the validation of all this interest. he's lots from the 1st married guy who will tell yet another lady regardless of she needs to take heed to maintain her dazzling on. he's "close" to falling in love, merely what the heck does that propose. He has a spouse. it extremely is not almost the youngsters. do no longer baby your self. He remains together with his spouse using fact he needs to be there. yet, seem on the youngsters, heck, seem at his spouse. She shares his mattress each and every evening and had his infants. She thinks he's elementary and truthful. She believes him. she would be injury. His infants would be injury if and whilst they locate out he's betraying that believe. His family contributors will go through. yet, the actual answer is interior YOU. Why are you searching for something exterior your person marriage. Why are you betraying your husband including your secret communications and activities with this guy. Your husband is additionally injury. you're able to finally end up dropping him. this sort of component has a tendency to ultimately come to mild. you will the two be coping with the outcomes. Your the two being detrimental. in case your no longer happy on your marriage, then you definately've a decision. the two placed all that ability into making your marriage greater useful, or get single. Then, flow finally end up a single guy to play those video games with.
2016-11-25 22:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel happy with this
then more power to you.
Personaly I like it atleast 3 times a week, im 26.
Sex is a very important part of a relationship I think
but if you both are happy with 2 times a month
then you wont have any problems.
Ask him and make sure he agrees with this
because most guys I know like it way more than that.
2006-10-26 09:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both comfortable with it,no one else has a right to say.
But I'd check in with him every now and then at random and slightly more frequent intervals... might be okay to spice things up a little more often just to keep the love lights glowing.
Of course, I am assuming that he takes the time before and in bed to make sure that your love light is glowing with at least one capital "O", otherwise what's the point for you?
2006-10-26 09:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by HeartSpeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice a month? I'd go crazy. We're at about 3-4 times per week and I've heard of some doing it almost every day. A 31 year old doing sex twice a month...........hmmmmmmmmmm..... cheater??/
2006-10-26 09:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you have been married for and what kind of relationship you have...its not all about sex in the marriage if your relationship is going good otherwise and its just sex missing than you can work on it...you need to sit and analyse your relationship and if you want to revive it nourish it and things will improve.....good luck
2006-10-26 09:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by jewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋