Is it possible for a man to last TOO long in bed? I have the opposite problem of some men, sometimes I don't even reach orgasm. It doesn't bother me and I can perform just fine, but from a woman's perspective is it a positive or a negative thing to last such a long time?
2006-10-26 09:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by taylorvanilla01 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yes it is possible. If it goes on too long, you end up being very sore and uncomfortable.
2006-10-26 14:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady but I once had a similar problem.
Speaking from experience, lasting a long time can be a plus. That is until the woman starts to wonder if the reason you are lasting so long imight be because she doesn't feel that good to you.
That can be a tough situation. And depending on her sexual security level, she may feel bad that you aren't just exploding in a matter of second because she feels so good.
You can learn to control it. I used to have a similar problem as a younger man, but now I can almost always control it. I can do a 5 minute quicky or make it last over an hour. Depends on the situation, the desire, the intensity or time constraints.
2006-10-26 17:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by DragonOpinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the woman...I had a boyfriend that did the same thing.....as long as you are in tune with her body and dont go past what her body can handle then everything is fine.....if you are lasting too long just try to think of the sexiest and most erotic thing possible and imagine it you may be able to orgasm then...
2006-10-26 16:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. It can be frustrating if with so much action a guy doesn't finish. It can also make a woman somewhat sore. But, if it takes the woman awhile to reach orgasm, then she may be really pleased that you waited for her!
2006-10-26 17:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind sometimes but other times it can be bad for us (women) because of the friction. I can go hours at a time but every now and again I dry out and it is painful. My husband has a lot of stamina and although I am not complaining sometimes it can be a pain. By the way it is a definite plus.
2006-10-26 16:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true, then you are the dream guy for any lady! A guy with such good stamina is worth his weight in gold, etc, etc, etc......you go boy!
2006-10-26 16:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by seth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see anything to complain about. Maybe she's just bored. I just can't believe that could be a bad thing.
2006-10-26 16:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by D'Arcy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to go for marathons too and have never had any complaints
2006-10-26 16:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to your partner about how much she wants. if she wants to stop after one orgasm, then stop (unless you're close) and if she wants more just go for more.
2006-10-26 16:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman; I think most women would say
OK, already, this is nice but......
2006-10-26 16:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋