What would cause a friend to divulge your darkest most embarassing secrets over and over again to women? Do you think it's by mistake or do you think it's sabatoge? I'm curious because a group of buddies and I have this one friend who will go hang out with our lady friends without us and then tell them all the dirt on us. Why would he do something like that?
2006-10-26 09:00:42 · 15 answers · asked by nightrider 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's jealous of you for some reason & he wants to hurt you. Stop telling him things you don't want anyone else to know.
2006-10-26 09:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my opinion that when you put someone down or try to make them look bad it is a sign of low self esteem. By telling your secrets he is just trying to make himself feel better and look like a more upstanding person in the eyes of others.
Do your lady friends get upset over these secrets or do they just laugh them off? You may want to confront this friend of yours and ask him to stop, if he does not then you will have to decide what to do about the friendship. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 09:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone's hit the nail on the head - he's got these women's attention and loves it! Also, is he drinking? I tend to open up the vault when I drink, but I spill MY secrets, not those of a friend.
Your friend will find himself w/o friends one day soon - or being left out of the loop because of what a gossip he's become.
2006-10-26 09:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is trying to become "one of the girls" by providing gossip about you and the other men in the group. He may be doing it to make himself look good to one (or all) of the women. It seems uncharacteristic of most men, so maybe he is gay.
2006-10-26 09:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by xxxoldheadxxx2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would cause your friend to divulge is if you don't be true to him/her and if you don't be true to yourself! Just keep on going on and on with your friendship by doing those things!
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2006-10-26 09:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jessieeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sucking up to the ladies .. if he makes u dudes look bad, hes the only rooster in the hen house..... tell him hes being pathetic,and needs to find another way of making himself look better/feel better!
2006-10-26 09:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by pretty_amazing_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is not really a friend he's more like a wolf in sheep's clothing he's definately sabotaging you guys so that he can get all the girls for himself i would dump him as my friend immediately as they say with friends like that who needs enemies am i right or wrong
2006-10-26 09:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is trying to make himself look better by making you look bad.
2006-10-26 09:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Leah * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to score points from the ladies
2006-10-26 09:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by oneluv804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To try to get in good with your women.
2006-10-26 09:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋