If someone picks on you all the time what to do. I been thorugh some hard times this last two weeks and im just holding my fustrstion in. what do i do.
2006-10-26 08:55:38 · 26 answers · asked by trncbeard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell some one of authourity, like a teacher, or parent or someone else
2006-10-26 08:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by refer_2_me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is what My mom told me when I was young at the age of six. First day of school she told me that if anyone bullied me, I should tell the teacher or someone. If that doesn't work, then I go ahead and beat the crap out of that person. Exhaust every option and then resort to violence. Guess what. In fourth grade this girl picked on me (tomboy) I told the teacher, the principle hoping they wouldn't do anything. They didn't. We faught, she left crying, I was left grinning, but later guilt. Wanna know what happened, She and I became Friends, Good friends in 5th till 9th grade. she left somewhere and I haven't heard from her . Hope my experience could give you an insight on what to do
2006-10-26 16:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that its tough being in school and getting bullied. If you tell on that person, then you look like your scared and a tattle tell. If you fight, you will get suspended, however, that person will stop bullying you. I usually wouldn't advise anyone to fight b/c really it doesn't solution anything, but in this case, it will make YOU feel better. Don't say anything to that person. Next time, the bully comes up to you to bully you, hit the bully as hard as you can. Let your anger and frustration take over. Don't say a word though. Let it be unexpected. or you can tell on them. Its up to you. Kids are devious so sometimes you have to be just as devious back.
2006-10-26 16:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say release that frustration on that bullys face and he might leave you alone after you beat him up. And if the school suspends you just tell your parents the full story so they could understand why you did it. If you cant beat up the bully then there isnt really another way because it is really hard to shake a bully.
Alt method is to beat him at his own game and do what he does to him...... if you can beat him in that he might step down. If you cant do that then you are boned my friend.
2006-10-26 16:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by wickboom333 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for the guy around a corner with a big stick and beat the freaking crap out of him or pay someone to do it.
WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT TRY TO REASON WITH HIM !
If he was reasonable he wouldn't be a bully. Or you can always have your mom call his mom, etc. but I suspect that may have repercussions on you that would make your life a living hell. No, I gotta go with kneecapping the sucker.
2006-10-26 16:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by derstrudelmonkey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like the bully is not affecting you, and don't let it affect you. Be able to laugh in their face and show them that you can live life without letting them affect you. And if that doesn't help, let someone know what's going on like a trusted adult or family member. Trust me, when you get help, it really does improve the situation. Do the best you can alone, and if that doesnt work by all means get help. Good luck to you hon!
2006-10-26 15:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first don't keep bottling it up inside you, if you do you will burst like a pop/soda bottle when shaken too much. if it is someone at school then tell one of your teachers or counselors, or even the principle. if you are an adult then if they are actually harassing you then call the police, you could get a restraining order against them. good luck!! but remember to document all the things and times they are bullying you!
2006-10-26 16:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone is bullying you, depending on your age, you should talk to your parents or a relative. If it is at school, you should let the people in the office know. You need to let someone know who is older and wiser so they can give you good advice. If the bully is making serious threats, you really need to let someone know about this.
2006-10-26 16:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by snickerdoodles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the school authorities and if they don't do something that very day (like call the parents of the bully) get a lawyer.
2006-10-26 16:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to the person that is picking on you sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. If it does not work then talk to their parents or the teachers about it. Trust me i went through it in school. Now I look back and I go and thank th teachers that I talked to because they did something about it before it went to far. Don't forget to talk to them first and then talk to the teachers.
2006-10-26 16:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should fight your own battle, dont involve teachers etc, (what wil you do later in life), regarding the bully, i think you should assert yourself, tell him that you dont like it & it has to stop, if he still doesnt back off insult him in front of family, friends, girlfriends etc, should be a real ego blow
2006-10-26 16:00:47 · answer #11 · answered by atts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋