as youknow my wife didnt choose me i stayed away for a day.Believe me big call.
Next day i get kids as i leave i get big hug big kiss in heaven big time.
pours her heart out to me about her friend is dying of breast cancer.
i told her i can tlet go.
i want her by my bday daughters bday and christmas that im not doin it alone.
we goin to sons preschool this morning other sons school fair tonight shes picking me up in 3 hours time.
kissed her hugged her last night.felt fantastic.some other fbuddy from before my marriage wants us to have a fk session as she is now on own but i will feel like im cheating.
btw my wife & i both wearing wedding rings???
our wedding photo still in prominance in her house.
this really is my soulmate i dont know how to let go & to be frank i dont want to let go.
what do i do listen to heart or head??
2006-10-26 08:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by 69frustrated69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wife chose some other guy
we have 5 kids together.we both still wear our rings.
i love her still
2006-10-26 08:43:03 · update #1
more detail.Today having great day leads onto ultimate in intimacy.
Was loving & awesome she tells me she loves me ????
2006-10-27 00:32:54 · update #2
more detail.Today having great day leads onto ultimate in intimacy.
Was loving & awesome she tells me she loves me ????
2006-10-27 00:32:56 · update #3
Listen to your head. It will tell you what you should be doing.
The deal is this. You want her back but she wants the other guy.
It may be time for you to be hard to get. She is nearing the point of no return as far as her decision goes. Make sure you impress on her that you want her back but unencumbered by other diversions. Put the ball firmly in her court and wait. But not long.
Good Luck.
2006-10-26 08:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!!
She chose someone else and right now is enjoying both of you in this situation. That is not fair to you.
I'm sorry, but I think you need to move on.
2006-10-26 09:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, but if hers is not in it then you are better off with yourself and finding someone new.. The world is a very large place, and there are millions of other women out there. best of luck
2006-10-26 09:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she's confused. Are you her first real relationship? Been together since you were kids?
My husband choose another woman over me...TRUST ME he ain't got sh.it for me. Its like we never knew eachother.
She's confused. Get into conselling if not YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON!!! For you and for your kids.
2006-10-26 08:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart. Defintely. It seems like you still love her and she still loves you. Talk to her, I think you both need too.
2006-10-26 08:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
None of that made much sense to me..... It was all fragments, you should consider revising.
2006-10-26 08:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ouch.
2006-10-26 10:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO CONFUSED what are you saying?
2006-10-26 08:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋