why do certain people come into our lives only to leave us in the end?

Question

i'm not talking about a "positive experience" like having the most wonderful & caring friend in the whole world taken from you by God (in which case you know s/he didn't leave you intentionally). i'm talking about something that leaves you just terribly sad inside. like when someone you've trusted with everything leaves you...(I'm talking mostly about romantic relationships.)

thanx

Answer 1

People enter our lives with a purpose.
That purpose would be to teach us something. Each and every human being has something valuable to teach us-whether we listen to it or not. Sometimes they teach us by their own example and sometimes they teach us valuable lessons by making us react or feel a certain way making us learn more about ourselves along the way. Everyday with every encounter with another human being , we have the opportunity to learn something we didn't already know. All we have to do is realize the opportunity.

Answer 2

human beings come into our lives and leave interior the top using fact it helps us as people boost, the destiny unfolds the way it does for a reason. We learn issues from each and every guy or woman we meet.

Answer 3

although it is sad and hard to deal with it you should find the positive in it. examine the relationship and how it was. why were you so trusting with this other individual? what attracted u to them in the first place? what kept you in the relationship?
analyze the relationship and i am betting that you will find a lesson in it.
everything happens for a reason we just need to find that reason ( and perhaps we won't it might only be a reason known to God)

Answer 4

I think its because in life, to learn you need experience. Even if those experiences leave you sad, you probably still learned something. You have to take the bad, and make it good. Whatever happened it probably wasn't meant to be, look on the bright sides. :-)

Answer 5

Without problems to overcome, would there really be a point to living? If you're hurting because someone leaves you, that's when you've got to stand up and yell to the world "HEY! I don't need this crap! If I was able to love someone so much that our separation is causing this much heartache, then damn it, I can do it again!" >:)

Answer 6

i think its fate, its because there is someone out there who is just right for u.
so those people who affect ur life and leave u, make u learn something about how to treat ur loved ones, and what to avoid doing.
and gaining those experiences wont make u screw up with "the one"

by the way, it really hurts i know, but its worthy when u meet the right person

Answer 7

well...you have to see the silver lining in all of your relationships. you can learn from everyone you meet, whether it's something about life, people or just yourself. (once you get past the anguish and anger, of course. you will eventually, maybe not completely, but you'll be able to go on)

Answer 8

yeah it sucks, but that's life - you gotta look at it as a lesson learned & that it wasn't meant to be. you gotta move on & think positive and think about all the things in your life that are still right without that certain person.

Answer 9

everything happens for a reason.

i think we cross paths with those people so we can learn more about ourselves and about the differences in people. and in relationships, i think it helps us figure out what we want and what we dont want in the person we ultimately choose to be with.

Answer 10

It can make us sad , but who knows it may have been the best for us in the end.