Even though in spite of the evidence she says they were just friends...there is good evidence!
2006-10-26 08:08:07 · 44 answers · asked by iamdwill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let them both know that you know then kick some A S S!!!
2006-10-26 08:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by jb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him to know? What will it change? I mean are you planning on leaving your wife over this because if not confronting him isn't necessary to do because you're not with him you're with her but she needs to realize now that you know that there is no need for her to continue a relationship or contact with this man for the sake of her marriage. If she's denying it have you presented the evidence that stated the opposite? My advice leave him alone unless he's like a close friend or relative but other than that, it's a situation between you and your wife.
2006-10-26 08:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by bettyspagettii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to first come to terms with this in your own mind, next talk to your wife. Just remember one thing, it was YOUR WIFE who should have been in control of herself and her emotions not the other guy. Telling the other man or confronting him will not make you feel any better and probably will not have any affect on him except to maybe pity you and you don't want that. Be the bigger person here, take the high road you will feel much better, besides if your wife did this to you why give her the satisfaction of thinking two men are fighting over her.
2006-10-26 08:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont. Because in the end you will look like a fool and maybe you will end up in jail by hitting or killing the man when you confront him about sleeping with your wife, even if you dont plan to do anything like that! It is your wife's fault only, not his. He has nothing to do with the problem. Your WIFE is 100% at fault. She is the one who is legally married (contract) to you and she is the one who should not have done anything with another man even if he made moves on her. She is 100% in control of her own body and mind. She KNEW what she was doing.
DONT confront the man ever. Never seek him out and try to avoid him. It is best for you to avoid him. Think of yourself.
2006-10-26 08:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine all the frustration you're feeling right now! Betrayal, faithfulness, hurt, Yes humiliated as well, If you have solid rock, hard, stone cold truth, then yes, I would confront him. She deserves everything she dished out. I know, (if you leave her) and begin dating again (?) that you will have a lot of trusting issues, and I'm sorry she did that to you. You didn't deserve that. Confront him and let him know that you know and kick the living S H I T out of him! Then leave your wife. Cause ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!
2006-10-26 10:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Talk with Your Wife. If you have to deal with the other man, you are just guys with a Mutual Problem. Her. And you know her "buttons" more than he does, not matter What they say. Forget "the evidence." Find out what your wife needs in "a friend." Ask yourself whether you're willing to be a friend or whether you just think you ought to have "a wife." Find out what needs of hers you two can satisfy together, And Let Her Get Her Other Needs Satisfied Elsewhere If You're Not Willing, Yourself.
2006-10-26 08:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude why? Confronting him will do no good unless you're just looking for a fight. Even if you win you copuld wind up in jail.
2006-10-26 08:49:01
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Your beef is with your wife. She is the one who made a vow to you and then broke it and is now lying about it. If you have proof that she cheated and you can't live with that then Dump the Motherfv
Will it make you feel better to tell the man that you know he was seeing your wife? Seems to me there wont be anything solved between your wife and you by doing this. You need to be working on that relationship and not worry about the guy if she isnt still seeing him.
2006-10-26 08:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. Discuss it man to man. Just to let him know that you are aware of these activities. Either he will stop or continue with them. And if he does then you need to seriously talk to your wife about where your marriage is going.
Good luck..
2006-10-26 08:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ò?à®?á?¦JulieBirdá?¦à®?ϯÒ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel humiliated, feel sorry for her. The biggest problem with your wife is that she's not only a bigamist but also a lair. And if you still living with her, they should ha_g you. My friend send her to hell for being a bigamist and a lair. This woman will do anything to keep her romantic with this other person a secret and if you believe her she will keep on doing it. Get the hell out , asap. good luck
2006-10-26 08:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely.
2006-10-26 08:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋