do u still experience the moment when you totally break down over that past relationship that didn't work out

Question

you can write about it

Answer 1

Nope, I don't. But I still remember the day it did I cried, went rollerskating and heard the 'fix you' coldplay song a load of times.... it was awful and I'm glad It's over.

Answer 2

I am going through that right now. My first love from when we were 18 yrs old and I broke up with because of family pressure, they did not want me in a serious relationship so young (we were talking futures/marriage/very intense). A year later I tried to get back together but he was inovlved. We lost touch. Now approx 16 years later when we are both married with children we accidentally realize we live in the same state. I talked to him/exchange email a few times not thinking much except how nice it is to be intouch with someone from my childhood and then suddently it was like I was kicked in the stomach -- I realize I still love him and never stopped. Timing is impossible. Have gotten help from this site. I know I need to move on but my head and heart are spinning. he knows how I feel and I don't think he feels the same way, which hurts, but at least he is being an adult. I hate myself at the moment and am waiting to feel better and normal again.

Answer 3

Yes I am remarried, but every once and a while a song or something will make me think, and I may cry. But then I look at the wonderful man I am now married to and thank God for him. There is a reason for everything. You wouldn't be human if it didn't bother you once and a while. In time it gets better.

Answer 4

here's the story: a few years ago, i got into a relationship with a man who had recently seperated from his ex fiance. about 6 months into the relationship, he confessed that he had still been sleeping with his ex. (gotta love that catholic guilt) anyway, like a dumbass, i stayed with him, and we put his infedelity behind us. another 6 months go by, and we find out that i'm pregnant. more time goes by, then i go into labor and have my first daughter 6 weeks early. she had complications that i won't go into right now, but she passed away when she was a week old. then like 3 months later, i unexpectedly got pregnant again. while i was pregnant, i wasn't able to work, because it was a high risk pregnancy (because of my first child's complications). he lost his job, and we were about to lose our apartment, so in an act of desperation, we decided to try to get a roomate to help out. and wouldn't you know it, the only person we could find was his ex. at this point, my hands were tied, so i caved and allowed her to move in. my mother is disabled, and during this time, i was out quite a bit while taking care of her. a couple months pass, and the ex/roomate moved out, and we got other roomates. then out of the blue, he tells me that his ex just found out that she's pregnant, and it's his (i'm at the end of my second trimester at this point). after years of bending over backwards trying to make this relationship work and be a real family, he knocks up his ex. and the bastard had the audacity to blame his infidelity on being broken hearted about our first daughter.

needless to say, our relationship ended. my second daughter will be 2 years old in december, and she couldn't be more beautiful. i'm recently engaged to a man that i absolutely adore, and he's a wonderful father. my ex moved out of the state when our daughter was about 4 months old, and he's been back to visit twice since then. he and i are doing our best at remaining friends, because i feel that my daughter has a right to know where she comes from. but even to this day, it still makes me incredibly angry and hurt to remember how he betrayed me after everything that we went through. but i'm trying my best to put it behind me, and focus on how much better my future will be.

Answer 5

I've just got out of a very serious relationship..and till this day...i break down everyday, hoping to know what it is that i did that made him leave me in this cruel way...

Answer 6

when u love someone...u create heart ties....& literally ur soul becomes connected to theirs...when those heart ties are cut...ur soul morns that person along with ur heart...its natural to feel that way...just remember in the future, to be careful who u give ur heart too...only give it to someone whom is worthy of it & will take care of it.

Answer 7

yea and when i so that people just laugh and say i need to get over him i was with him for three years

Answer 8

no let bygones be bygones and look towards the future.
someday youll be happy again

Answer 9

no no really you soppost to GET OVER IT!