are making me so jealous. im not cruel just the way i feel has anyone else ever felt like that?
2006-10-26 08:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by MEGAN 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes I have. I to miscarried at 10 weeks, and yes it is hard to see other people with babies. I had a mc in 2001 and at times it is still hard but everyone is different. Time heals all wounds. Good luck and best wishes
2006-10-26 08:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure this is a terrible time for you.
I had to deliver a baby gift to a friend's hospital room a few days after I miscarried. I thought I would cry right there. You're not cruel, and your feelings are totally normal. I have two healthy kids and I still wonder about that pregnancy.
Do you know about Resolve? I think it's just www.resolve.org. It's about pregnancy loss and so on. Hope it helps.
2006-10-26 08:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Used_to_know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miscarried last October and my sister in law was pregnant at the same time as me so was a friend (all due within 3 weeks of each other). I would'nt say I felt jealous just a deep feeling of unfairness and 'why me and not them', I tried avoiding them but in reality that does'nt work. Your friends will probably be well aware of how you must be feeling and it really hurts I know but you really have to accept that you will come into contact with pregnant women and women with new babies. Sorry you are feeling miserable - keep your chin up xx.
2006-10-26 08:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. I miscarried at 11 weeks and had a hard time seeing other babies for awhile. It gets easier. It never goes away completely, but it does get easier.
As for a silver lining, I now have a happy, healthy, and beautiful 5 month old boy...so keep trying when you're ready to. Good luck and my thoughts are with you.
2006-10-26 08:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by alehousegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off thet me tell you how sorry I am. I have had several miscarriages. I understand that deep hurt. You friends will too. Be honest with your friend. Let her know that you are happy for her but that is just too hard right now to be around the new baby so much.
It does get easier. You never forget, but the pain gets less. Then, hopefully, one day you will be blessed with a baby of your own. Take your time and take care of your heart.
2006-10-26 08:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take this wrong, but at least you know you can get pregnant. My friend has spent 50,000 + for invitro (5 times). I had a miscarriage too at 8 weeks, now I have a 1 year old. It was probably the worst thing that ever happened to me. I will say a prayer for you.
2006-10-26 08:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who miscarries feels that way. I wont lie to you. You'll feel that way for awhile but it does get easier. I myself was pregnant with twins and went into early labor at 5months and they were too little to survive. Not quite the same as a miscarriage but know how you feel.
It gets easier and you'll never forget but you'll learn to move past it and keep your baby's memory alive.
2006-10-26 08:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by s_sill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry for your loss. A friend of mine had a still-birth at 26 weeks. It was so difficult for her, that she was unable to attend her friends' baby showers. She has since had two healthy baby girls.....so keep your spirits up and continue to share your feelings....it helped my friend. She also prayed a lot and asked others to do the same.
Good luck and God Bless
2006-10-26 08:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by leah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have, find out if there is a support group in your area.
2006-10-26 08:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural. it is your hormones. they will level off. as for now be gentle with yourself...and stay away from your friends until you feel more like your old self.
2006-10-26 08:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋