its been 2months since my fiance dumped me im still living with him oviously im waiting for a coucil flat,for weeks and weeks we have been in seperate beds,he has been really mean to me lately i still buy his food cook his food wash his clothes show him alot of love,he made me cry infront of my friends howvever this week we have got on alot better hes told his mum hes confused ,i think he still loves me.there is more warmth between us,do you think hes thinking of us getting bac 2gether?????
2006-10-26 08:03:50 · 22 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not while he can have his cake and eat it luvie!
2006-10-26 08:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by puffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Your joint tenants then go to the council sign an affidavit declaring Your not an item,and wait to be rehoused.DONT move out or You`ll take longer !!!! If You decide it`s over then dont be His servant.Show Him You mean buisness,and if He wont sign an affidavit then wind Him up with a new b/f then He`ll get off his bum and get busy !! Stick it out.It`s really hard getting rehoused as it is !
2006-10-26 10:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not while you are doing everythng for him!!!!!!!! You are basically his slve just now and he can have his cake and eat it!!! Stop doing his washing and cooking and let him see what life would be like without you!!!!!!!! Then he night want to come back......... but not while he has you playing housewife at home and can have somone else at the same time!!!!! He is using you huny!!!! Stop everything for him and don't let him see you upset!!!! He has won then!!!!!!!! Good Luck xxxxx
2006-10-27 00:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you waiting to see what HE wants? And stop buying his food, cooking and washing for him. And for God's sake, stop showing him "a lot of love". He sounds like a jerk. Don't wait to see what he's going to do before YOU take control of your own life!!
2006-10-26 08:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck stay around to find out, he really does sound like a horrible person, i am sure you could do much better than him, he is using you, get out and make a new life for yourself..cheers good luck and god bless.
2006-10-30 05:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the flowers luv...hes using you. Built in wash cook and bottlewasher, cant be bad. Get out ASAP and start living your life again.
2006-10-26 13:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, no! Even if he does want you back, you do not want him back. Please, go, stay with one of your friends or a relative and give yourself some time to get your self-confidence back. You are better than him and should be loving and caring for someone who feels the same way and will love and care for you just as you deserve.
2006-10-26 08:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be,but as for washing his clothes and looking after him and he treats you bad!!! play hard to get girl, let the cat come to the cream!!!! if you love him i hope for your sake hes trying to put it right,or just wanting you back in the "sex" bed. you know the vibe your a woman, do you feel hes trying to put it right or use you? use your instinct. listen to your head not the heart and i exspect your friends have something to say,if they have seen him make you cry...remember people see from the outside looking in... good luck x
2006-10-26 08:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by RUBY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first............ stop doing everything for him. He can't have it all his own way. I would leave him to sort himself out. Lead your life i.e. go out with friends and treat him as though he were someone you were sharing a place with. In my eyes he has a lot of grovelling to do before you could ever consider taking him back.
2006-10-30 00:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? Why can't you just leave? Geez. You're killing yourself by sticking around! Why are you doing these things for him!? I'm confused. Are you english? Why do you say 'mum' just curious. Anyways, no. You're letting him have his cake and eat it too. Stop being walked over. Leave already.
2006-10-26 08:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Its no chance , he dumped you once he will do it again . If it no respect between you and him . I think you have to leave .
I have the Same Its no respect and allot of problems .
But I have a baby and I don't know what I do?
2006-10-26 08:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by rafat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋