Me and my husband decided to have a temp seperation and it is because he needs some time to think ext. we just had a baby and he is not really himself well I just want to know some ideas on how to insure that at the end of this seperation he will still want to come back home.
2006-10-26 07:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Invite him over for dinner one night, have him spend time with you and the baby. He sounds like he's totally unprepared for fatherhood, and that does happen. Talk to him, ask him about counceling.......There is no way to insure he'll come back, you just have to try different approaches to see if they work or not. Remember:
If you love something, set it free......
If it comes back, it was meant to be....
If it doesn't come back, it wasn't meant to be....
Its an old saying, but its true...You might just have to give him time......GL;)
2006-10-26 08:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to tell him that this isn't good for your marriage. You two need to work through these things. Running and separating is not going to make your marriage strong. This is the kinda of thing that helps you grow together. And not staying in the same home is pulling your marriage apart. girl go get your man and bring him home!
2006-10-26 08:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your hopes up on him coming back. Commitment is a big thing for all men out there. Don't let him disappointment you!
2006-10-26 08:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not comin back because he wasn't ready for a child so he ran out you can do betta find someone else i hope it works out
2006-10-26 07:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nashay N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...wait.....YOU had the baby and HE'S not himself. Oh hahahahah...oh that's rich...that's a good one.
What are you...nuts? Have some self respect lady...please.
2006-10-26 08:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep remindin him of all the good times that you've had and keep tellin him you love him!! but then agen give him some space :D hope it all works out for you!! xx rach
2006-10-26 07:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by *!*Rach H*!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him.find some one else.
2006-10-26 08:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋