Okay so my life is falling apart like crazy..My boyfriend just broke up with me cuz he likes someone else, my VERY close cousin is in the hospital because she did something (shes suicidal), my step dad is in the hospital from a stroke, my mom isn't doing to well, my friends all seem to be fake, my life is boring and falling apart. I'm always depressed now and got in the habit of cutting my wrists and stabbing myself with needles/pins.. I always overdoes and have done it for a while now. I can't stand doing it and I need help. Any suggestions?
2006-10-26 07:45:43 · 21 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I suggest you see a doctor and a therapist if your cutting yourself and overdosing that needs to stop. Remember whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I hope everything gets better for you.
2006-10-26 07:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters...welcome to the real world.
You would be surprised that many people share your situations.
You need therapy. Talk to someone fast.
As for your life falling apart.
There is a young man right now that does not know if he will live or be killed by a sniper or bomb. Every day he wonders if he will survive. His wife is cheating on him with his 'best friend' and many others in the neighborhood. He sleeps in the dirt, and only gets a shower once a week.
He has a small child he loves dearly but is actually from a cheating affair and he is clueless.
As long as the money is sent home she will never let him go but does not love him at all.
After his tour is extended another six months he will leave the military to find his wife in bed with another man and his bank account wiped out by her.
His friends will shun him because they screwed her too.
So it could be worse.
Get help.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
And know that Jesus Loves you and so do I.
2006-10-26 07:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need counselling. Suicide is a bad solution to any problem, unless you are terminally ill with a painful disease. Any other problems can be overcome. Men come and go, family members will die sometimes. But, life goes on. You are in control of your own life. You choose where you want to go with your future. I have alot of crap in my life that you might want to slit your wrists over. But, I am a survivor, you be one too. Be stronger than the negative things in your life that bring you pain and sorrow. You can do it. A good counselor will help if you can't resolve to do this on your own inner strength. But, it will feel much more triumphant to think yourself out of the funk you're in. And, when you are feeling like the shining example of girl-power that you should be, you can help your cousin too. Tell her, no matter how bad things seem, there is always a chance for a better day tomorrow, a new love, a new you. All you have to do is tell yourself how you want to feel, and make it so. It's your mind. Control it like it's your hot new car. Enjoy the good things life has to offer you. They're out there, go find them.
2006-10-26 07:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take yourself to a residential psychiatric facility since you need some intensive help and support. You could even go to the hospital emergency room and they'll do an initial intake there. Don't think you can handle this on your own, because you can't. You can go alone or take someone you trust to help you talk to the doctors. Your life will look a whole lot better when you're not severely depressed, but you need help to get there.
2006-10-26 07:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by wynterwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty bad, i was feeling pretty bad myself today. i keep telling myself things can not be that bad, i believe everthing has a purpose. if i have to go though the bad days to bring about the good from them,then that is what has to been done. i am sorry you are going though all this bad stuff, it must be very painful. the heart can ache so much its unbearable.you must believe that all of this pain in your life must have some sort of meaning , that in the end will have some good results. you have to be strong. have you had any counseling before? maybe you should call a suicide hotline or go to the emergency room. try to remember you are a very important person and life is worth living. i do not know if you believe in praying,but maybe you could try and see if it makes you feel better.just take one day at a time.
2006-10-26 08:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harming yourself deliberately is a sign of mental distress - you need to talk to your mom, a school counselor or other school staff like a teacher or administrator NOW.
Do it first thing - miss class if you have to! What you are suffering is a job for trained counselors to handle and may be indicative of a medical condition that may require a prescription.
2006-10-26 07:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please get help. i understand where you are coming from and its a very dark place. you are the only one that can make a choice to change your life. hurting yourself is not going to change any of your problems or make those that you love get better. being strong and healthy will help you to be there for those that you care about and to get through tough times better. i know sometimes it feels better to cut yourself rather than feel the pain thats inside, but there is a way out of it. the first step is asking for help from a counselor. the next step is to love yourself and realize you deserve to be loved - by you. you are very hurt and the best person to heal some of that is you.
2006-10-26 07:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by faiths13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need ot find a good therapist. Everything that you have described are signs of depression. Go to your family doctor and let them know what is going on. They will recomend what therapist you should see in your area and prescribe you some medicine to help level you out. I have been there honey. It will work out. It always does. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-26 07:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it seems like it is falling apart and I am so sorry for what is going on in your life as of today. Right now you got to give it to God and let him work miracles in your life. You got to ride out this storm and don't give up, you need to be the strong one for everyone right now. I hope all works out for the best for everyone in this time of need.
2006-10-26 07:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny how much i could relate to you. a few years back my mom was in the hospital my boyfriend had broken up with me my dad was being a real jerk to me and my Friends or my brother was there for me. so i got the same habit as you, plus drugs.but what i did to help myself was just stop and think about how much it would hurt my mom if she were to find out what i was doing. so i decided to stop for myself and for my mom. loOK all i could tell you to do is stop and think about if what your doing is actually making you feel better or worse, also think about how your family would react to what your doing. just stop and think ok<3
2006-10-26 07:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋