my wife has cheated again and now i want to get her back anyone from saint louis
2006-10-26 06:59:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get counseling and or a divorce. Cheating on her will do nothing but make you look like a a.s.s.
Also if you have had sex with her after she cheated get checked for STD's.
2006-10-26 07:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you want to get her back?? Do you mean revenge? That is not the answer. If you want to try to salvage your marriage you need to insist that she go in for STD and HIV testing immediately as well as you getting tested too if the two of you have had intercourse or oral sex during the time she was cheating. Your next stop would be an appointment with a marriage counselor ASAP. If you do not want to salvage your marriage then go for STD/HIV testing ASAP and then head straight to your lawyers office. Once you have done those two things either she has to leave or you have to leave. Revenge is not the answer so decide if your marriage is worth salvaging or not.
2006-10-26 14:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not going to solve anything.. You need to leave her and get all the money you can.. Get back at her when you are divorced and marry someone prettier than she is and way better. You do not deserve this.. Cause if you get back at her, and she finds out, she can us that against you in the divorce, even though she was the first cheater..
2006-10-26 14:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce Her. Get A Good Attorney and Take All Her Money.
2006-10-26 14:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? Get her back?
You want to bring her home?
Or do you want to get even with her for hurting you?
I would advise for any of the above that you seek professional help and get counseling.
Best wishes, your in my thoughts.
Forgiveness is the greatest gift for yourself and the choices you need to make will be difficult and I hope you find peace and happiness.
2006-10-26 14:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her back by packing up all her s h i t and tossing out on the street. If she likes being on her back so much I'm sure she wont have too much trouble finding a place to sleep.
2006-10-26 14:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your Integrity!
Revenge is a poison!
Seek counseling and work out your problems.
Remember you are responsible for your relationship.
If you are truly loving and caring for your spouse she would not have the need to seek it else where.
Truly be honest with yourself and go back and see if you may have mistreated her.
2006-10-26 14:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to get her back? Clean out your bank accounts and go to Vegas for the weekend - and take lots of pics of you having fun and spending her cash, buying hookers, whatever - and make sure she gets a few copies of the pics - at home, at work, etc.
2006-10-26 14:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you think by you going out and doing it on her that will help you any ummmmmmmmm no ....sorry buddy once a cheater, always a cheater so i think its time you and your wife moved on she is telling you she is not happy but she did all all wrong and its girls like her that give us good ones a bad name ..........go fined your self a real women
2006-10-26 14:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's cheating on you? Well, maybe try being romantic and sticking your penis in her vagina every so often, then she might not feel like cheating!
2006-10-26 14:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by DustInCarroll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋