Don't ever ask for help so this is a way to circumvent that problem-
How does one stop causing chaos is ones life.
Background - 45yr white male living in the midwest, 9 kids in family, middle child, never knew father, very very little connection with mother, abusive step father.
Divorced - worked three jobs, wife fell in love with someone else, divorced her. both to blame - I know
Problem: Relationship, will stay away from anyone getting close to me ea: friends, family, girls lol
Jobs: Never lost a job, but caused myself promotions by disagree with the ones trying to promote me.
Finances: Make 70,000 but always in trouble financially, not bad enough not being able to get out of it in 2 months time.
Timing: will always wait to the last minute to leave, just to see if I can still get there on time. It just seems that everytime things are going great, I have to screw up some part of my live, to have to start over.
Any help for me, classic case I even took this down to the last le
2006-10-26 06:43:27 · 3 answers · asked by learnfromachild 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Considering you are an adult living away from your chaotic family, now divorced from problem relationship, there isn't a whole lot of chaos left in your life except financially. Since finances do affect our lives so much, it feels like everything is out of control. Get some good financial advice--read a book (Suze Orman is good), go to a financial counselor, or something to establish some better habits.
You are better off than you think--and you do deserve a good life.
2006-10-26 08:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree that it doesnt sound like your life is any more chaotic that most people. honestly, making $70K puts you in a better position than the average person is in. and getting out of debt within 2 months would be fantastic!! i have debt that will take me years to pay off, but i still know there are people in way worse trouble than me.
crap happens. its a part of life, not necessarily some psychological problem you have that causes you to sabbotage everything.
2006-10-26 14:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you don't sound much different than alot of people.
2006-10-26 13:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋