2006-10-26 06:26:45 · 10 answers · asked by Regan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unless you contributed to purchasing the condo then I see no reason for him to put you on the lease. You two need to take a long hard look at your relationship and figure out where it is going.
2006-10-26 06:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said he bought it and then wrote lease- I'm assuming you mean salesppwk. If you live in a community property state it doesn't really matter does it? If he loves you then you should be in a permanent situation with him after 5 years or because he's getting all the benefits anyway why should he ask....Did you go in half on the down? This is a business transaction, you pay half or let him have the condo, its his money. Maybe someone screwed him in the past? Ask him point blank and get a real answer and don't take it so personally-let him know that you need to know to settle it in your heart and be able to "toss it away" and not be hurt-
2006-10-26 13:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you contribute to the purchase of the condo?
I am taking about you putting up some money in order to secure the lease.
If you did not why should your name be on the lease?
The name of the BUYER goes on the lease.
Don’t be greedy. Instead of being angry let this spur you to buy a place of your own.
2006-10-26 13:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello again…
The simple truth here is five years, and no committment, no ring, no plans for the future. It could be one or all of two things… either he's looking down the road at his future without you in it, or he sees you as unreliable for a plethora of reasons (infidelity on your part, different goals for the future, future soccer mom of the year issues).
If you really love him… ask him where the two of you see yourselves in another five years. Volunteer to pay part of the mortgage for a year or so before reapproaching the subject. Let him know you are in for the long haul and have no plans of usurping what he has worked hard for his whole life.
Then start talking about the size of the ring you want.
Hope it helps!
PS. Is the condo nice?
2006-10-26 13:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key words - "boyfriend" and "he bought".
Did you put any money into the deal? If not, then you should not be on the title - that simple.
Would you want to be responsible for 1/2 the mortgage payments, taxes, and insurance, even if you guys split up?
If you end up getting married, then you can talk about it. In fact, in some states/countries, you may already own half because you may be recognized as a married couple by common-law. Check out the common-law marriage requirements in your state/country.
2006-10-26 13:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wierd why he wouldnt want ur name on the lease..ask him why.
2006-10-26 13:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by bcuzimagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you helping him pay for any of it? Are you living there too? If not, then it's not your buisness, if you are helping him pay for it, then you better fight it, because you could be paying for nothing, especially if he deciedes to throw you out.
2006-10-26 13:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that should tell you right there that he is not planning a future with you my dear good luck
2006-10-26 13:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that tells you that he's not thinking about you in his future
2006-10-26 13:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not his wife so why should he?
2006-10-26 13:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋